i had sex for first time and did not bleed and felt little pain?is this from beeing athletic? or is something wrong?????????
2006-09-08 10:00:02 · 19 answers · asked by allison f 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
should i be concerned there was no condom involved? my bf says you cant get pregnant on first time.
2006-09-08 10:02:44 · update #1
is my bf correct?
2006-09-08 10:03:19 · update #2
no period as of yet this month
2006-09-08 10:07:32 · update #3
The only thing wrong is your boyfriend telling you cant get pregnant on the first time. What a bunch of bull and he knows it. If you are sexually active, which obviously you are now, you need to have protection every time. Buy a box of condoms so the exuse that he doesnt have one cant come up and if you cant bring yourself to buy the condoms then you are too young to be having sex anyways... You can also get STD's. You need to start seeing a gynocologist and having yearly exams now as well. Please be careful and safe.
Not bleeding and little pain is just as normal as bleeding and having pain.
If you are under 18 (which I assume you are) this is my advice you may not like it but i honestly think this is what you should do and would want my daughter to do the same:
Talk to your mother. Tell her you had sex. Be honest with her. Tell her you want to make an app and see a gynocologists (a pelvic exam will tell if youare pregnant or not) and possibly get on birth control. Let her get angry (she is more sad than anything even though it will prob come out in anger). I was 17 when I got pregnant with my daughter and I wish I wouldve open with my mother about what was going on.
2006-09-08 10:10:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kristin Pregnant with #4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every woman's body is different and not all women feel pain or bleed when losing their virginity. As far as not being able to get pregnant the first time, this is absolutely false. If you have begun ovulating (have had a period before) you can get pregnant. Be very careful about using protection if you aren't ready to start a family.
2006-09-08 10:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by TZebar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to bleed or to feel pain , it is not a must .But the part of the first sex not making you pregnant is just an excuse from your BF to have sex , you can get pregnant from first sex.
2006-09-08 11:12:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check on the calender to when you had your last menstral period, count the 28-or 29 days you start up again, wait for it, if you miss that week for your period go get a pregnancy test they are cheap and at walmart go to the pharmacy if you are embarrest go home and check, but it is possible that you have gotten pregnant, dont be such a naive girl please, use protection. He probably had a small dick and thats why it didnt hurt you or made you bleed. So goodluck maybe you will learn to not do this again.
2006-09-08 10:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to bleed the first time. You may of already "popped your cherry" and not known it, or it just hasn't happened yet. But most importantly you can get pregnant the first, second, or any other time after that. All it takes it once, so unless you are ready to have a baby, use protection. Speaking from experience!
2006-09-08 10:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by bnelly05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um. You can get pregnant whether it is tour 1st or 100th time. You boyfriend was dead wrong. Take a test, it is possible you could be pg. Also get tested for std's and NEVER HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX AGAIN unless you want a baby or a disease. Wait until you are old enough to understand your body and mature enough to handle a sexual relationship.
2006-09-08 10:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by ShanaJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal. some people get those things and some dont. It depends on the "status" of your hymen
Your bf is lying. You can get pregnant your first time. And if you didn't know: you can also get STDs your first time and any other time without protection.
2006-09-08 10:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by highc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to bleed first time having sex. Having pain is very normal (more normal then not)l. Nothing is wrong.
2006-09-08 10:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf is an idiot. YES you can get pregnant the first time. you are right about the athletic part, but you BOTH are SO STUPID for having unprotected sex.
2006-09-08 10:06:34 · answer #9 · answered by Dope boy magic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first sexual experience does not have to be painful or result in "bleeding". A pregnancy may result from it, though. See the websites below for additional information...on pain during intercourse, contraceptives, and other issues pertaining to sexual activity.
2006-09-08 10:11:35 · answer #10 · answered by sheila_0123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋