im really self-conscious around people i dont know, and the only people i'm comfortable around is friends and family. How can i get myself to talk to people?
And also, how can i start a good convo.? It seems like part of the problem is that i have nothing to say. How can i get myself to be funnier and more fun to be around?
2006-09-08 09:46:31 · 8 answers · asked by Blondie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Relax, your just like every other blonde girl who has nothing to say. The problem is that most of you girls think you have nothing to say when in fact you do. Just say something wierd to someone, and dont worry about what others are saying because chances are they are worrying about themselves just like you. Just relax and have fun with everyone.
2006-09-08 09:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
First of all, don't worry. Everyone deals with these problems. It is hard to approach people that you don't know. I find, I just do it though and it's never as bad as I expected. Just try to relax and walk up to someone. Introduce yourself. The best way to make people feel at ease is to ask them a couple questions about themself. Then, you can respond to that. That's easier than coming up with something on your own. Plus, it shows you have an interest in what they say/feel, which people usually like. Ihave found the people who I become friends with are the people who are really open and friendly. They make me feel comfortable around them. So, just be yourself and it will all work out. You sound like a sweet girl, so good luck.
2006-09-08 16:52:39 · answer #2 · answered by Kitty 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've answered your own question. you are only comfortable around friends. Assuming you didn't buy them through mail order, how did they become your friends? You must have done something right.
To begin with, listen and react rather than trying to start the conversation. Don't try too hard to be pushy, or funny. Unfunny funny is social death.
2006-09-08 17:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax. If people do not like you for who you are, then you don't need them! Be yourself. That is why you are comfortable around your family and friends, b/c you know you can be yourself. But, around strangers, you feel that you are not good enough, huh? Well, just tell you self that you are good enough, you are funny, and you are fun to be around....and then relax and be yourself. If they don't like you, find someone else to be with!
2006-09-08 16:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by #3ontheway! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-08 18:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by Stacia V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just ask the people about themselves are tell funny jokes or be nice
2006-09-08 16:51:42 · answer #6 · answered by kwi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i got over that because i just went to talk. now i am popular.
2006-09-08 19:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act funny,talk about ppl,and gossip.
2006-09-08 16:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by Nicholais S 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋