For Example: When a really feminie guy walks away from most people the first thing they say is "He's Gay". If a girl were to wear something short and a bit revealing the first thing people would say when they see her is "She's a whore" I mean why are we so obsessed to find out who the other person is sleeping with.
2006-09-08 09:30:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
dont know, but i think its really stupid
2006-09-08 09:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by moonshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's not really about with whom the other person is sleeping. It's about putting people in categories. You can write off a 'whore' and not take her thoughts or ideas to be valid, because you might think someone who wears a short skirt is looking whorish and must be stupid.
If you write off a guy as gay, some people might just take him to be happy-go-lucky and fun all the time (much like how people write off overweight people as either jolly or disgusting). Then he can never be serious, because it wouldn't be fun and it wouldn't be what many people perceive as being gay.
2006-09-08 09:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by millancad 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are naturally judgemental creatures! Its not right, but everyone has judgements of people at points. Some more than others. But who cares? Ive been called many things, and some of them stuck for a long time. Now I just kind of tell people to F off, and I like myself. I dont care if people think Im slutty, or weird, or crazy, and I would hope for you that you can stop caring too. Its the nicest feeling in the world to just let it roll off you. Take care sweets.
2006-09-08 09:37:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure. Don't know why I need to see a rainbow decal on the back of a car or truck, or a delta sign somewhere. Am I not supposed to be blind to orientation and accept all? I like certain acts and visuals more than other, and I am not ABOUT to boradcast what is ultimately personal and private information!
2006-09-08 09:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mike R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are biologically programmed to reproduce. We seek suitable mates and want to propagate. As a man, I would want a woman to only propagate with me. Gay people can confuse us, because they go against those instincts.
Of course, what makes modern society possible is that we can transcend those instincts. We also need to realize that the same evolutionary or other forces that created each of us created everyone else. But you didn't ask about that.
2006-09-08 09:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tom M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a legitimate point. A very good one I might add. The ones who say those kinds of things about others are really disguising their insecurities about themselves. When one throws snied remarks about others, the person/s they are insulting don't look bad. The thrower does. As far as it goes, honestly, I don't care what anybody else likes to do with another agreeable party. It is none of my business. Whatever floats one's boat. :)
2006-09-08 09:44:10 · answer #6 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because we're all at some level quite perverted!!
we all love a good sex scandal, we're all too nosey and interested in everyone else!!
its like when you walk past dogs humping!! u know u shouldnt look but u just cant help ureself!!
2006-09-08 09:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by GHETTOFABULOUS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a new fad, unfortunetly. Particularly gangsta culture refers to "fags and b****es", and some Christians, too. People don't recognize it's none of their business, which is a problem.
2006-09-08 09:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by Fletcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple answer: They are obsessed with other peoples sexuality because they are uncomfortable with their own.
2006-09-08 09:37:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sheer morbid curiosity.
2006-09-08 09:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Cherry_Blossom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we are bored out of our minds and horny most of the time where just apes with big brains
2006-09-08 09:35:31 · answer #11 · answered by Rich 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋