I found him on My space. We talked on the phone alot of emoitions are coming back he lives 3000 miles from me. Is this a good or bad thing? what should I do?
2006-09-08 09:30:34 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds as if things weren't completely aired out and that you still might want this guy in your life. If he is feeling the same way, there is no reason why you shouldn't try a second time around. In love, there is always second chances. I hope this goes well for you!
2006-09-08 09:32:44 · answer #1 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There has to be a reason why you found him on my space. Why were you looking for him? What made you decide to contact him once you found him? It sound like you have not had closure regarding the situation. The emotions are probably due to the guilt over the decisions you made 17 years ago. I don't think this is a real romance rekindling at this point. You probably need to work through all the old crap and get closure on that.Then maybe you can see where the 2 of you stand.
2006-09-08 09:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it a bad thing? r u single? is he single? If so keep up the talk. the abortion was in the past and all you can try to do is forget about it. UNLESS....the abortion is the reason why you guys broke up....this is hard, there a lot of holes this story, but in the info i have i see nothing wrong.
2006-09-08 09:34:27 · answer #3 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that was hard for u to live with and I think if u tell him u will just put him in misery! I say keep talking to him but don't mention anything about it it just might crush him. And no ur not a murder u did what u thought was right!
2006-09-08 09:33:55 · answer #4 · answered by MELISSA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, in my opinion, abortion is one of the worst things someone can do. Secondly, if he stood by this decision and either suggested the abortion or even supported it, he is a cold hearted human being. Find someone else.
2006-09-08 09:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by LadyA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abortion is very wrong, it is legalized murder. If you can work things out, then go ahead. 17 years is a long time and people change, you can not find out how somebody is online because it is mostly a front.
2006-09-08 09:35:21 · answer #6 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What happened to you was in the past move on from that, but keep the love and emotions and start again and it could be a good thing, its only a bad thing if you make it a bad thing...Go for it and good luck.
2006-09-08 09:33:31 · answer #7 · answered by ladee_in_luv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wake-up you already made a big mistake there are still so many decent man in this world for you to entertain,you have moved on to a new chapter of your life already why go back to that bad chapter once again keep your head up and dont look back move on
2006-09-08 09:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a good thing to talk out the feelings you've harbored all these years.
You went through alot together. Take it one step at a time. Think before you speak.
2006-09-08 09:33:37 · answer #9 · answered by paintressa 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Long distance relationships are always a bad idea.
Seriously there are people over 17 on myspace? What the hell?
2006-09-08 09:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋