After a 4 year relationship, my ex and I went our seperate ways about a year ago. He has since worked things out with the mother of his child and I've also found a new love and I am very happy.
Every now and then, thoughts and memories of my life with my ex cross my mind. Sometimes I think I might even miss him. Don't get me wrong, life with my current boyfriend couldn't be better. I'm incredibly happy with my new relationship and would NEVER return to my ex.
Is it normal to miss your ex. even though you couldn't be happier with your current relationship? I feel so guilty.
2006-09-08 09:12:27 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you hear an old song then it may take you back to a special time & place & for that second you almost wish you could relive that instant again. But reality is you are remembering that particular moment, recalling that particular memory,....not just the guy.
Chances are you get a warm fuzzy feeling but only within that thought.
2006-09-08 09:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by paintressa 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!! Life is SO MUCH Better since that divorce was finalized a decade and half ago -- that ex is best left in the trash bin where he belongs. There were so MANY, Many, Many problems that he had that there are NO good times to offset that horror of a short disaster of a marriage. This ex is the reason that I resolved to REMAIN SINGLE and to BE SINGLE for the rest of my life.
2016-03-27 03:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, I miss my ex, but my aim is getting soooo much better!
Don't feel guilty, it's normal. It's been a while for me too and I'm with an amazing woman!!
You're a bit addicted to this, so I would just so NO, everytime you think about him and do the right thing and forget about it. The guilt will eventually stop.
2006-09-08 09:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah, I don't miss him. He was a cheater and abusive for 4 years. He was also 4 years older than I. Very possessive. Whenever I see him or if he crosses my mind, I always remember that it was HIS LOSS. We haven't spoken to each other ever since our break up. We are both married and have families. My husband is 10X the man he was.
2006-09-08 09:26:09 · answer #4 · answered by TML ♥'er 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married to a wonderful man for nearly 13 years now - we have 4 beautiful children together... I still think about my ex. I don't think it's wrong. My ex and I weren't only "together" - he was my best friend for a long time. You don't think about him because you want to be with him - there are pleasant memories that you don't want to lose.
2006-09-08 10:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal to miss your ex.. sometimes when I hear a certain song or smell his cologne I think of the great sex we use to have...lol...
You miss them even more when you fight w/your current boyfriend..I've been with my bf for 10 years and still sometimes I think about the ex.. it's not wrong..I love my boyfriend to death.Especially because my ex was my first..
2006-09-08 09:16:55 · answer #6 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Memories are just that, memories. Dont let them mess up your current relationship. I personally have never missed my ex, but it sounds as though you and your ex ended on better terms.
2006-09-08 09:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by •°¤Lauren¤°• 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry hun. I know exactly where you are coming from. I still think about my ex. What might have been, the love we did share. And I have a boyfriend who means everything to me, and I wouldn't leave him for anyone. It's okay to think of the past loves, you always will. You will never forget someone you loved.
2006-09-08 09:16:21 · answer #8 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I miss my ex who was my soulmate and we dated for 6 years. Its been very hard for both of us to let go. I'm starting a new relationship and its just strange starting over because we were so comfortable before.
2006-09-08 09:17:38 · answer #9 · answered by ray4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's normal. Happy times make you smile and the fact that you can remember about those happy moments is a good sign. Imagine those who break up badly... they won't have nice memories of each other, and that's such a shame.
2006-09-08 11:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by Blue Blue Blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋