At my school there is this girl who used to be my best friend. She went to this one girl and told her that I called her a f*cking skank. Which is not true because I don't even cuss! No my old best friend is bumping past me in the hall way with her new best friend who hates me. They all talk about me and threaten to beat me up. I know that they can because they all have been in fights before and I never have. I can not ignore her and can't tell her to stop. What should I do? I feel like no one likes me.
2006-09-08 09:11:08 · 10 answers · asked by actresst22 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well...I try to be passive but if she is actually touching you when you say "bumping" I would throw my books down and tell her to bring it, win or lose you cannot let her bully you...stand up for yourself. good luck
2006-09-08 09:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me. But luckly for me there was other girls that this ex friend had hurt. They knew what I was going through and helped me. They told me that I wasn't alone, and that I was (am at the time) a wonderful person and lauren didn't deserve me as a friend. That she didn't deserve any of us as friends. BUT this doesnt always happen. Are there any other friends that you have that you can get close with? Maybe one who you knnew but then just stopped hanging out with? And about the fight just walk away. Tell the princible or something. when you are stopping violance it's not tattling. But stay after school or something so people don't tease you about being a teacher's pet or something. What happened to me was after she dissed me we just stopped hanging out and She went to hang out with the punk girls. which is kinda sad now that she smokes and stuff. but it's her decision and Heather and I can only warn her to a certain point. good lluck let me know how it turns out ~islandgrl2011
2006-09-08 09:28:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible.I know what it feels to be in a situation like that so I tell you this,people stop doing things to you by seeing that you don't look like you are scared by what they do or are planning to do to you.Anyway,my advice is that you should maybe stay away from everyone,but not go all "sad face" and stuff,do the opposite,be happy and even though you are without anyone.If you are talking to someone,even though they are also the ones that hate you,smile(even if you are trying to scare them with something,or whatever)Good luck!(also talking to someone you trust helps as well)
2006-09-08 09:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cutie ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your guidance counselor? ask he what is the best way to handle it, my thing would be to ignore her, find a new set of friends, or I will call her and tell her I did not say it. Don't worry about this too much this will blow over.
2006-09-08 09:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more careful about choosing your friends. Take a quick course on self-defense and don't show them your frustration.
2006-09-08 09:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by busymomof4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand up to her, either way the situation needs to be resolved, so you can get past her games.
2006-09-08 09:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Varacha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write her a note tell her what happened ,and if she was ever a friend she will know you are telling the truth ,but if they are threatning you this needs to be reported ,
2006-09-08 09:41:43 · answer #7 · answered by whitecloud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if i were u i would tell on her and the things that she did to u and hurt ur feelings. I would tell this to ur teacher or guidence teacher.
2006-09-08 09:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang......why are girls like that? always drama.
2006-09-08 09:20:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear ......
i like to you .......my sweety
2006-09-08 09:22:09 · answer #10 · answered by chinthaka d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋