My bestfriend and I have been bestfriends for about 3 years now, and ive known her for 5. we've been doiing great, but latley shes been acting funny. she dosent want me to have other friends but her, and she gets extremely mad when i hang with her sister. we used to fight about it but we would make up in the same day now she goes weeks without talkin to me. recently we were in the same situation and now she wont speak to me. ive told her a million times that i would never replace her, especially with her sister, and weve had long talks about it. usually i dont pay her any mind cuz she eventually gets over it, but this time shes really serious. like she just completely erased me from her life basically. like all because i talked to her sister online. she dosent want to be bestfriends. and it hurts cause its not like i was wit her sister and not her. i was with them both. i wanna know if i shuld wait nd see if she comes around or if i should jus erase her out my life like she did me...??
2006-09-08 09:10:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My bestfriend nd I hav been bestfrends for about 3 years now, and ive known her for 5. weve been doin great, but latley shes been actin funny. she dosent want me to have other friends but her, and she gets extremely mad when i hang wit her sister. we used to fite about it but we would make up in the same day now she goes weeks witout talkin to me. recently we were in the same situation and now she wont speak to me. i tell her alot that i would never replace her, especially wit her sister, and weve talked about it. usually i dont pay her any mind cuz she eventually gets over it, but this time shes really serious. like she just completely erased me from her life basically. like all becuz i talked to her sister online. she dosent want to be bestfrends. and it hurts cause its not like i was wit her sister and not her. i was wit of them both. i wanna know if i shuld wait nd see if she comes around or if i should jus erase her out my life like she did me( p.s imma girl also )
2006-09-08 09:31:11 · update #1
PS IM A GIRL TOO!
2006-09-08 09:31:36 · update #2
ur friend has some major problems. u should try 1 more time to be her friend & then if it doesn't work out u should just go with ur life. life is 2 short 2 have 2 deal with people like that. if ur friend really loved u she would stop acting like she does. find other friends to hang out with!!!!!!
2006-09-08 09:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by angel sent 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think it would be good for you to confront her in a civilized manner and ask her. I really would question, however, someone who treats me this way...is this really how I want to be treated by some one who is a friend of mine...what follows is ...is this really a friend of mine, or just a user...a friend when it is to her convenience and then not when I need her. Friendship is a give and take, but it needs to be equal if no one is to end up with hurt feelings. Re-evaluate this relationship and discover if it is really worth keeping. Personally, I have my doubts. Be discriminating...you don't ever need to settle for a bad association. Be picky who you have for a friend and set standards.
2006-09-08 16:36:37 · answer #2 · answered by wannaknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you as more than a friend. Either be that person or cut her out of your life.
2006-09-08 16:17:20 · answer #3 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's showing you how bad it is with life without her; propose to her. JK
Just ask her out though.
2006-09-08 16:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ouch, sounds like she is intrested in more then just friendship.
2006-09-08 16:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Varacha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out. Beleive me, thats what she wants you to do.
2006-09-08 16:17:09 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Hánnàh♥ [Hysteria] 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋