My husband is constanly accusing me of cheating. He bitches if I am out with my friends or even my kids. I have never actually cheated on him, but at one time did have a "relationship" with a co worker. Other than that I have NEVER given him a reason to be so insecure about our marriage. Do you think he could be cheating on me? He has had one affair that I know of and that was with our 16 yr old babysitter. How do I handle this?
2006-09-08 09:10:21 · 5 answers · asked by shelley s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Unfortunately there really is no way to handle this. It sounds like he has major trust issues (and Im sure you must have them as well considering he has cheated on you). Even though you didn't technically cheat, having a relationship with a coworker is almost worse (as it was more of an emotional connection than a physical one).
I'm sorry to say but your relationship has a lot of issues that need to be worked out. It sounds like your husband may still be cheating because of the fact that he is accusing you of doing so...you know what they say "guilty conscience". I had an ex accuse me of cheating before...turns out he was the one who was cheating.
I recommend you get help for your relationship now. It sounds like you have both been unfaithful...and what is your reasoning for staying married? The kids? Trust me, if there is as much fighting as it sounds like there is, the kids would be better off if you two split up. I say for your kids sake you work it out now...and whether that be counseling or a divorce I hope you can figure it out.
2006-09-08 09:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you unfaithful first? If so he may not trust you. Also regarless having an affair with a 16 year old baby sitter is against the law and should be reported.
2006-09-08 16:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all he should be arrested for fooling around with a 16 year old girl. i am sure her parents would be really happy to hear about what happened to their daughter. while he is in prison you could have all of the "relationships" you wanted with other men
2006-09-08 16:18:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kidding right??? You have both cheated...What a nice marriage you have (lucky children)!
2006-09-08 16:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats the pot, calling the kettle black. couples counseling!
2006-09-08 20:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by mobs8970 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋