We've know each other for over eight years. We've dated each other two different times. Both times separated on good terms, just not the right time for each other. He always ends up calling me again thou. Maybe just friends?? What do you think.
2006-09-08 08:58:22 · 33 answers · asked by Polly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
a man never wants to stay JUST FRIENDS with his ex. If he still calls you maybe he cares about you and doesn't want do end it. As simple as that
2006-09-08 09:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Domnul Andrei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem... Here is the scoop:
He may see you as a sister, a good friend, an advisor but if he has a gf, he doesnt see you as a potential... either that or he just cares about you and wants to stay connected in anyway that he can... even if that means you are just his friend.
If your friendship is comfortable, let it be... if you feel that he is trying to rebound, let him know where he stands. Remember eight years is a long time to know someone... he may feel a strong bond with you... take it as a compliment.
2006-09-08 09:05:42 · answer #2 · answered by sandrawiltzen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 04:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately we all have a hard time with loss and change, especially if you were with him for a long time. More than likely he is feeling some loss, however, its not fair to you or her when he makes contact with you since it will not allow either one of you to move on.
Remember there probably is a better reason your not together now or else you would be.
Remain cautious since this type of communication hinders a relationship for you in the future with someone else!!!
2006-09-08 09:10:25 · answer #4 · answered by Believeinu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows, maybe the RIGHT time has come. You can only find out by seeing him. I suggest a lunch in a crowded resturant. Sounds like you are interested or the question wouldnt be here. Even so are you also READY if he is interested. Maybe you both are playing games?
2006-09-08 09:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by jimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it sounds like you all might just end up as just fiends.I mean if you all have tried it 2 different times but both ended on good terms. Friends is better than lovers. with in time you will know if it is destin for you all to be more than friends. just dont force something that isnt there ..u dont want to get hurt or end up hurting him. :) goodluck
2006-09-08 09:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing the kind of conversation you and he are having, it's really hard to give an opinion. Sometimes people don't realize what they have lost until it's not there any more, but after 8 years you should know if it's friendship.
2006-09-08 09:08:49 · answer #7 · answered by laughsall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either wants some or figures out that other girls just aren't you. If you've known each other that long it could be friendship, but most relationships like that end and it becomes apparent that friendships are a bad idea.
2006-09-08 09:17:53 · answer #8 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he really does still love you. You should give him a try. If he is willing to make the first move then he must be a nice guy. But if her messes up again just tell him that it is over for good.
2006-09-08 09:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by actresst22 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it as friends, don't let him tie up your life, if he has a girlfriend, It is nothing wrong with being friends!! Want more for yourself, get out their and find some one who will be true to you, because you are worth it.
2006-09-08 09:03:19 · answer #10 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋