he responds to other women's profiles online. He has told me he was just having fun and I know doesn't even use his own name. But it makes me feel a little uncomfortable and sometimes pissed off. Do I have the right? Or is this normal and he is just having fun?
2006-09-08 08:48:00 · 36 answers · asked by Megsee25 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he propbably is having fun abut at your expense. its
somthing that you too-just like any married couple has
to work out . remember- people never like to be told what
to
do- so try first telling how it makes you feel.
2006-09-08 09:10:56 · answer #1 · answered by don;t know 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be pissed off no man should do this unless he is trying to find some on the side. But e-mail between a man and woman who you know is just a friend is ok as well for you if you have someone of the that is a friend and he is a male but looking at women's profile's usualy mean's he is up to something.
2006-09-08 09:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My answer might sound contradictory, but yes it sounds like he's just having fun, and yes you have the right to be upset. He should have that kind of fun with you!!!
Here's an idea, though, to bring him back around to where he's supposed to be (which is on you):
Set up an account under a different name and don't tell him, then answer one of his ads, and start flirting with him online. Try to push all his buttons and try to get him to meet you somewhere, and then when he gets there, SUPRISE it's you! If you can get him to go, don't be mad, remember that you know how to push his buttons and random girls online don't, so what seems easy for you to get him to do might be very difficult for other girls. On the other hand, if he won't meet even you, then you know other girls don't stand a chance. I'll bet after that, he stops being interested in looking online.
2006-09-08 09:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! You have every right to be pissed off and if he doesn't get it ask him how he'd feel if you were talking to guys on line. Not only is he playing a dangerous game with your marriage but he's also going to cause some of these girls a lot of heart ache and that is just plain mean. He needs to stop doing that and give you the respect that you deserve!
2006-09-08 09:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not right! I wouldn't want my husband talking to other women online he has no business emailing other women it would make me feel uncomfortable too and I would be pissed off too he is a married man he has a woman he doesn't need to be emailing women he has no excuse to email women I would be suspicious him not using his own name I would block those girls from emailing him
2006-09-08 09:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by blondeqtwitanicebooty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me, years ago. I was mad and hurt. It became an addiction to him. It was difficult to get through. Something someone suggested to me...find out his email address..create your own anonymous profile and email him. Flirt with him, get his juices flowing for awhile...see what happens..the reveal the real you...don't do this because you are trying to catch him, but to add some spice to your marriage. Look at it like a game. Open up and have some fun. Otherwise, you will just be miserable and it might end up breaking you up.
2006-09-08 09:56:07 · answer #6 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, you have every right to be pissed off...what are his intentions? It could be fun but really when a man gets carried away with a woman, you know what happens. Be pissed off.
2006-09-08 08:55:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have every right to be pissed. It doesn't matter if he's just having fun. There are no good reasons why he should be looking for another female on line to chat with.
2006-09-08 08:59:10 · answer #8 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yeah you have the right to be pissed I would be too. The time he is taking to email all the other "girls" is taken away from spending with you ...is that fair to you? NO, I don't think so,I would ask him to stop...If he isn't doing anything wrong and really cares how it is making you feel he won't have a problem at all stopping this
2006-09-08 09:14:15 · answer #9 · answered by JACKIE M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You all need to talk and maybe find out why he feels the need to do this. A problem between the two of you may exist that you are unaware of. If this is not the case, then he needs to know how it makes you feel. I am sure that you would not intentionally do something he didn't like, so nor should he to you!
2006-09-08 08:52:29 · answer #10 · answered by M D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean like he pretends to be single and tries to flirt on line? That's kind of odd. If he just has regular conversations with women online who share some common interest with him, I wouldn't think it was a problem, but I think cyber-dating is not a good idea for married men.
2006-09-08 08:57:35 · answer #11 · answered by homebuyer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋