Alright, so this is just a random question that my mom and I were arguing about and I was wondering what other people's opinions were.
If your husband or boyfriend were to cheat on you, would you rather it be with a guy or with another girl?
I said a guy because girls are so catty and there's so much jealousy involved.
2006-09-08 08:39:35 · 21 answers · asked by Meghan V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Neither. I would not want my partner to cheat on me with either sex.
2006-09-08 08:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why........but I'm going to say I'd feel better if it was w/ a dude. B/C it wouldn't really bother me. Except for the fact that he didn't tell me he was on the DL. I'd feel like oh well he likes men and not women I can live w/ that. But if he cheated on me w/ the girl then I'd feel like. Wow I'm just not doing it for ya huh? and what can she do that I can't do?? It would hurt more to me.. I mean I can understand if he cheated w/ the dude he'd be afraid to come out of the closet. So he pretended to like me. But if it was the girl I mean WTF just tell me so I can move my *** on... So I choose the dude.
2006-09-08 15:52:10 · answer #2 · answered by BOMBSHELL21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may sound strange--but to me it doesn't matter. Cheating is cheating regardless of who it is with. I'm sure I'd be a little bit more shocked if it were with another guy...but I'm not so sure that I'd take it personally, as in I pushed him into it.
2006-09-08 15:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by vdubbchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd rather it be a girl cause than I would think that I wasn't living up to his standards and I made him turn to a guy
2006-09-08 15:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would remain calm about it and let her that I understand that people make mistakes and kiss her good night. In the morning I would cut her break lines on her car just enough to where it wasn't noticible to investigators after she died in a horrible car crash.
2006-09-08 15:41:51 · answer #5 · answered by King of Babylon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A girl of course that would be so embarrassing if your mate would cheat on you with the same sex a them
2006-09-08 15:42:41 · answer #6 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather it be with a girl....if he lowered his self to be with another guy I would start thinking there was something wrong with me.
2006-09-08 15:42:15 · answer #7 · answered by ronce_1118 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
much rather another girl. If it was a guy, i would wonder what I did to make him gay, and the insecurity would drive me insane.
2006-09-08 15:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither man or woman.Why give your heart to a cheater.Once a cheater always a cheater.
2006-09-08 15:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by llgarrett69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a girl
2006-09-08 15:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by fancey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋