At my school there is this girl who used to be my best friend. She went to this one girl and told her that I called her a f*cking skank. Which is not true because I don't even cuss! No my old best friend is bumping past me in the hall way with her new best friend who hates me. They all talk about me and threaten to beat me up. I know that they can because they all have been in fights before and I never have. I can not ignore her and can't tell her to stop. What should I do? I feel like no one likes me.
2006-09-08 08:36:31 · 11 answers · asked by actresst22 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ask your parents
2006-09-08 08:38:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry that you are having trouble with your friends at school. I know how frustrating that can be. You are on the right spiritual path and you will probably face some very strong opposition and even persecution because of this. But be assured that Jehovah will strengthen you if you ask him to and he will make a way out of this for you. Remember that he wants us to throw all our anxieties on him, he cares for us. Think of this as a way to begin to learn how to handle tough situations because there are many coming in the near future. Maybe this is the time to re-evaluate your associations and see if they are helpful or hurtful. Every difficult situation that we face may really be an opportunity to re-adjust our direction and to fine tune our lives. Do a reality check and see if this association is really something that you want to keep. If it is, then just remain true to yourself and don't be pulled into behaviors that are not fitting for you, and pray for God to help you do the proper thing. There are many fine verses in Proverbs that can help you to align your character with what is God's standards. Let the Word of God be your guide on the decisions you make in this situation. I have a feeling you will do the right thing.
2006-09-08 16:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by wannaknow 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats kinda of hard if these girls have any kind of rank at your school its even harder the only thing I can suggest is to go up to the girl that your ex best friend is spreading rumors to and be like look I need to talk to you tell her that you didn't say that about her and that your ex friend is just trying to start **** between the two of you because yall aren't friends anymore
2006-09-08 15:40:59 · answer #3 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The power of prayer what a wonderful thing that is and alot of people forget that pray for your enemies and they'll eventually want to be your friend really it works ill pray for you and your friend and you do the same even if you dont beleive in god just do it for the heck of it and i bet you will see a differnce God Bless you and i'm going to pray for you and your friends
2006-09-08 15:41:53 · answer #4 · answered by bernie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop whining and complaining. Why can't you ignor her? Why would you even want to be "best friends" with her? Wise up, sweetie, and get better friends. Silence speak volumes.
2006-09-08 15:40:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
beat her to it and beat the crap out of her with a golf club then she'll leave u alone... so will anyone else who dont like you... well thats how we handle it in the ghetto.... oh n remember do it off school grounds so u cant get suspended.
2006-09-08 15:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell some other gals, that the gal who cheated you was seen working as a part time hooker in a seedy motel for pocket money and drugs....spread the word around...mainly to the guys...
2006-09-08 15:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Mr ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they do it cause they like to see your reaction. pretend you dont care. if they bump you pretend that nothing happend. when they talk about you dont listen to them, dont look at them. for you know they dont exist. dont give them the pleasure of a reaction toward them. they WANT you to get mad/feel sad.
2006-09-08 15:42:34 · answer #8 · answered by NAQ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong...these thing tend to work themselves out in the long run....either that or solve it by confronting it head on
2006-09-08 15:39:25 · answer #9 · answered by cyborg_2099 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
high school drama. So past it. Good luck tho.
2006-09-08 15:38:51 · answer #10 · answered by sirius_the_grim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋