How do I move in, when I know without a doubt that this is the woman I love.
2006-09-08 08:26:27 · 13 answers · asked by The Lonely Skywolf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know what your feeling. To try to force the issue will only make it worse, and i'm sure you realize that. Yet you feel stuck, because she owns your heart, and you don't feel like you can move on. Unfortunately, love is a two way street. Time will pass, and you will meet other people. I would encourage you to just date someone that you can develop a good friendship with, and try to do fun things together. This is what I did, and I eventually ended up marrying that person that I only thought I was going to be friends with. I'm very happy now.
2006-09-08 08:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's so much that I need to know before actually giving you a proper answer, I mean, why did she break up with you besides not wanting to do anything with you? Do you know if deep down she can't live without you? It's just that sometimes us women tend to break up with the people we truly love for other problems and situations we have going on in our lives. But if the case isn't that you can do something to go back with her...then you should try doing other things like hanging out with your friends, play sports and etc. If you keep your mind busy slowly you'll begin to forget her, whenever you feel you're ready to begin dating again then do so. Best of Luck! ~V.J.~
2006-09-08 08:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know she wants nothing to do with you don't push it ... she will only resent you for it. Then you will never have any chance of getting back together. Let her know how you feel and that you will respect her decision and you will move on...Take this time to find and learn to love yourself. Don't go out looking to replace her. Love will find you when you are not looking for it. By then you will have strong self confidence in yourself and that is an extremely attractive quality in a man.Good Luck
2006-09-08 08:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by diver deb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has she been your ex? You love her, she doesn't love you, what broke the relationship up in the first place? Was it you or her? You could try courting her all over again and see if that will work for you, if not, go on with your life and chalk it up to experience!
2006-09-08 08:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to sit down and talk. Tell her your feelings and then listen as she explains her feelings. If she makes it clear to you that she doesn't want anything to do with you, then you have to back off. Clearly she isn't intersted in you, so you just need to get over her. Try to go on dates with other girls and enjoy yourself. You'll get over her and perhaps find somebody who will love you back. Good luck.
2006-09-08 08:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a two way street, it must come from both parties for ever one to be happy. If you truly love her you will let her go, and be happy with out you.
2006-09-08 08:28:53 · answer #6 · answered by gitammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S OKAY TO STILL BE IN LOVE WITH YOUR EX BUT IS IT OKAY FOR YOU TO CONTINUE TO LET YOURSELF SUFFER AND MISS OUT ON SOMEONE WHO COULD LOVE YOU IN RETURN? THINK ABOUT WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY AND BELIEVE ME THAT GIRL DOESN'T MAKE YOU HAPPY. IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF FIRST YOU CAN MOVE ON AND CONNECT WITH SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE YOU BACK. JUST LET IT HAPPEN DON'T FORCE IT. IT WILL HAPPEN. GOOD LUCK.
2006-09-08 08:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by vvargas227 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be it will be start dating other women that will help I know you can find someone to take your mind off of her
2006-09-08 08:29:11 · answer #8 · answered by tpchick22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a reason she is your ex, and she probably will hate you if you try to move in on her again.
2006-09-08 08:34:36 · answer #9 · answered by chris1979pt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take this time to work on you. give her some time then try to see if you can make things better
2006-09-08 08:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋