2006-09-08 08:15:16 · 9 answers · asked by dmamaof2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Men are not as invested in their feelings as women are.
Women think men cannot articulate their feelings
Men think women feel too much
Women think men should talk more about everything.
Men wish women would stop talking.
Women want to continue to explore and define their relationship.
Men want to play with the remote control.
2006-09-08 08:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Clarkie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we get burned when we try -- women, in general, look for too much meaning. We say "honey I need a little space," and you think we arent interested. We say we want more sex and you think we objectify you.
We'll start talking when you stop reading into what we say, but until then its too dangerous to speak. Here's a place to start: a guy wants sex, it is probably because he (still) finds you to be sexy and attractive, and fancies you. Its not that he objectifies you. Guy wants space, its because having a healthy personal life is important to having a healthy relationship, not that he has some problem with the realtionship.
Guys are simple; we just dont want problems. Every time we try to talk to y'all women, there's a problem afterwards. Either learn to see things in another way besides the worst case scenario, or deal with the fact that we are not speaking to someone who does.
If it helps, though, what we are usually thinking is either "why cant we just relax, enjoy our company, and not talk about what we are thinking?", or just as frequently, "I'd really like some oral sex right now."
2006-09-08 16:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by john_lewin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I dont think some men know exactly WHAT they want out of a relationship until much later on in the relationship. Unless it is just strictly sexual.
2006-09-08 15:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by •°¤Lauren¤°• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they cant say what they want, then they dont know what they want except sex so they say I dont know what I want and that makes you stay and hope something will come of it while he's thinking about it and getting sex in the mean while and maybe looking for someone else cause theyre still getting sex from you but not sure if they want you or not so to keep having the sex they say they dont know what they want.
2006-09-08 15:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coz most of the time men like to get surprised... and that is the reason why guys do crazy things when try and impress a girl... because they expect same from you... a lot of love... surprises (mostly conveying how much you love him) and yes... Sex works too..
2006-09-08 15:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by Gagandeep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they just don't know if they want one or not
another words if they are ready to take a commandment they will
If they want just the SEX they won't
2006-09-08 15:18:20 · answer #6 · answered by aaricka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some guys are scared and dont want to show their true feeling for girls. They want to act tough so that they think you will like them more and so that you dont think they're pussys. But they just dont understand that we dont want them to try to act tough, but just to be themselves, and act like they care about us. Some guys are just stupid, and care more about impressing you, than trying to love, and care for you.
2006-09-08 15:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by TayNuz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
beacuse half of the time if we knew we would all be lesbians
2006-09-08 15:17:28 · answer #8 · answered by classiclady 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2006-09-08 15:17:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋