I have bin trying with my hubbby to have a baby for 3 months now. I am stressed the hell out i have not gotton pregnant yet and i;m running out of patients, the reason i say that is becuase i feel like it's so hard .. when will it finally happen.? We have bin let down for the last 3 months. any one out there on the same boat as me.Pls tell me ya'll./ I know medicaly all is well , i seen the doctor and he made me aware of that. I also started taking my prenatal vtms a month ago already. Is suppose to help get my body ready for the baby .But nothing yet my period was late 6dys.Well any one with a similar or the same problem let me know...
2006-09-08 08:09:35 · 6 answers · asked by >>..<< Wilmy 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Relax ... you are trying too hard ...
Hopefully you are on top of the cycle of your body and you know when the right time is.
Now, I'm going to share something with you that worked for me ... right after you have sex, keep your legs in the air for a while ... seriously, it helps the sperm travel up versus losing it when you stand up.
Good luck!
2006-09-08 08:13:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok a previous answer I gave:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApuU09TEtkDPwOv9GfcAoYbsy6IX?qid=20060609114640AAJa0Ax
There's a problem with us in the modern world: We want everything now and we always want to be right. Lots of people are in the same boat and have been trying for years.
The same situation: People who want to lose lots of weight and concentrate on the end result not on what they're doing every moment of every day. It's a recipe for disaster and it's unrealistic.
If you want to acheive something, find out what you need to do to acheive it. There are no miracle cures or expensive pills to help.
If you want to be really slim/ athletic/fit it means eating very healthily and getting lots of exercise......for the rest of your life. If you give up on it the slim body goes with it. That's just a fact of life.
The fact of life is that you are putting pressure on yourself and probably your hubby as well. You said you are
"stressed the hell out i have not gotton pregnant yet and i;m running out of patients, the reason i say that is becuase i feel like it's so hard .. when will it finally happen.?".
What makes you think you should get pregnant straight away?
Think of it as being a karmic lesson: Are you going to be as impatient with your child when it is born as you are when you've only been trying for three months? You may not like what I'm saying but I'm saying it to help you.
Don't expect anything as expectations always lead to disappointment.
Throw caution in to the wind, live life with the main focus on being happy. Be romantic and sexy and enjoy being that way. Stop thinking about getting pregnant every waking minute of every day! It will NOT solve all you other life problems if you get pregnant nor will it solve relationship problems.
Focus your attention on your relationship and the two of you not having babies. Babies will come in their own good time.
Do I have to say this again? Your lucky enough to be able to enjoy unprotected sex without worrying about pregnancy so do it when you both want to and don't do it when you don't want to. Do it because you love each other and because you want to do it NOT so you can make babies! And let go completely, no holding back. Throw yourself in to your lovemaking.
There are no quick miracle cures.
You'll get pregnant when your body, mind and soul are ready.
In the mean time relax and enjoy yourself.
Try not to become too pre-menstrual as the 3 days preceding you period are your most fertile time. A mouthy, selfish, hysterical wife is NOT a turn on - just in case any of you ladies don't know that already. If you can continue your sex life during your period, all the better.
Relax and enjoy it. Good luck.
2006-09-08 10:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I'm in the exact same boat!. We've been seriously trying for 3 months as well. I signed up at fertilityfriend.com and I'm charting there. Are you charting everything?
I started taking Guaifensin this morning/avoiding dairy
I have the prenatal vitaimins
Flaxseed oil
I just thought when I was ready it would happen. Maybe it's my punishment for not wanting kids earlier (i'm 34)
2006-09-08 08:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by Pam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been trying for over 2 years now and still nothing. Your hubby needs to have a semen analyasis done if you still aren't pregnant after 1 year of trying and you need to have your fallopian tubes checked.
2006-09-08 08:13:15 · answer #4 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are stressed out the pregnancy will not happen. maybe your hubby needs to get a semen analysis. you may need to get injections or use other types of medical procedures to get you pregnant. sometimes it is god just taking his time with you. sometimes as my biology professor tole me that certain women and men are not compatible when it comes to reproduction. the genetics just don't want to connect with each other. i bet you will get pregnant when you are least expected. mom aunt was surprised that she was pregnant at the age of 35. she did not know. you see GOd surprises at different times of your life.
2006-09-08 08:20:02 · answer #5 · answered by averilyn06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try it on correct day for eg. the 14th day, for better results.
Good Luck, sharmarup@yahoo.com
2006-09-08 08:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Rupesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋