Is that just men in general, or is it something I am doing wrong? When he comes home from work he never seems happy to see me.
2006-09-08 08:08:47 · 11 answers · asked by Good Gushy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He just asked me to marry him the other night so I don't think he's unhappy. He is really unemotional, well he doesn't show it. Do they go together?
2006-09-08 08:22:15 · update #1
My husband is not an affectionate person either and I am very affectionate. I used to think it was me, that he wan't in to me so I talked to him about it. I told him that I need to be held sometimes, kissed, gently caressed and so forth! He said he just doesn't think about it. That's just who he is. I believe that it is him not me. But he is trying to make an effort at it, small effort but atleast he is trying. Just explain it to your man and see what he says>>
2006-09-08 08:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by faith 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when he comes home from work is the time when he's thinking about his day. He's thinking about the things that went wrong, what he did wrong, what someone else did wrong. Girls want to come home after work and talk about it and hug their boyfriend/husband. Guys want to go home sit in their recliner in front of the tv with a beer. They are just like that. I hate it, my husband is the same way, but you know if I wait an hour, I can hug and snuggle with him and he's cool with that.
2006-09-08 08:15:31 · answer #2 · answered by sunshinegirlieo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh that's something bad. It could be something with him. I used to feel like that but i was just depressed with life in general. I felt like everything was going wrong all at the same time untill i changed my life I made sure that when i got home i had a different attitude from when i left work.
2006-09-08 08:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think girls are naturally more touchy-feely and more needy for that physical (non-sexual) touch. As long as you guys are together and okay, don't worry so much about the physical and PDA stuff. It'll come around with time.
2006-09-08 08:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by Cameron G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just unhappy, move on before it begins to make you unhappy too.
2006-09-08 08:11:27 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He could just need time to unwind, if it doesn't change after he has been home a while, he is either stressed out or doesn't want to be with you anymore.
2006-09-08 08:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Amy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cuz some guys take for granted what they already have. they dont know how to appreciate what they have once they got what they want where they want it. that is why they end up getting dumped!
then they start to be more affectionate until they get what they want again. it almost never ends.
just dump him.
2006-09-08 08:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on how long you've been with him cuz if you've been with him for more than 2 years he's probably just bord of being with the same girl, so you should leave him and go find yourself another man,O.K.
2006-09-08 08:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by SHORTY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE PROBALY LOVES U MS GUSHY HE JUST NOT A AFFECTIONATE PERSON ME AND MY WIFE ARE GOING THRU THE SAME THING
2006-09-08 08:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does he still love you?just hope he change or be ready to move on
2006-09-08 08:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by salma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋