2006-09-08 08:08:36 · 15 answers · asked by sibi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Why do you think there are so many divorces in this country? Talk to him sometimes love can't keep people together. Listen to your heart but trust your head, do what you think is right.
2006-09-08 08:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by ann.natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear It happens in our life...
there are many things
1) We have a natural tendancy that we run after what we r not having and we forget to enjoy wat we have...
ur marriage might be a love marriage bt what happens after sm time, when we feel that the person we were looking for past 25-30 yrs is now mine,I have achieved. The person is mine forever....
There comes a feeling of Negligence about ur partner that now he/she don't have any option, now he/she will go nowhere.
this same problem we can hear from a married man that he is completly devoted to his wife bt his wife is not so devoted.
2) Try to change ur attitude towards him n towards ur life. Then only u will be able to change ur partners attitude towards u.
3) Have a break from ur routine life, go for outing(This is very imp)...
4) If u r having kids, try to gv him more peaeful atmosphere at home.
5) Whenever he is back from work don't start complaing (for anything), If ur partner thinks that now u r not so attractiveTry to be more attractive.
6) Try to keep urself at his place and then realise the situations.
7) Never hasitate to say sorry, Because this is the person with u have choosen to spent ur whole life, so he must be having some good qaulities which he had shown to u earlier. Try to motivate him to regain those good qualities.
8) If u think he is having sm extra marital affairs, then be bold. Discuss the whole thing bt in a peacefull way. Let him explain everything then u should ask everything u want to know. (Very IMP:: First Decide that only one person will talk at one instant)
We forget to care, to give time n attention to those people who r with us, for us... n commited to remain there Forever..!!!
Be happy and then only u can SPREAD happiness(n If u r not then try to be)!!!
2006-09-09 06:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by Rock_shock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont have the answer to this we too dont have one for you. This is your life and you have the right to be treated well. Ask yourself what do you want...it is clear that a thought is born in your mind, and you are now seeking action by asking a question. Believe me you have already taken action, by bring this question for discussion. You are not far away from a good solution.
Have you spoken to your husband about this? Looks like you have and wondering what the next step will be....you have courage believe me to change things. Change is scary because you will be doing something different, and there will be a lot of resistance from all who are used to seeing you what you are now. Dont be scared, because you are moving towards what you want, and when you have what you always wanted you are going to be happy!
2006-09-08 15:19:50 · answer #3 · answered by thachu5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she should be devoted as she is , at least this thought will give much satisfaction then turning back . this will make her even stronger and give a much stronger will power . she should also try to attract him to his responsiblities , just try and don't get frustrated if there is a negetive result . because in india husband is a need for wife it's a cruel world out there and no body cares no body . so try to satisfy your self with what you have got if some thing else is waiting for you or is meant for you no one can snatch it from you
2006-09-09 03:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by gunchu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him.. separate or file for divorce.. don't get even, just leave his sorry *** cause if he doesnt' value ur marriage then no one he cheats w/will either... the wife shouldn't suffer if the husband is being unfaithful.. it shouldn't be something that she has to deal with...
2006-09-08 15:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real question is about STDs... sexually transmitted diseases.
You have a responsibility to yourself not to accept his risky behavior. The rest is immaterial. Protect yourself.
2006-09-08 15:14:45 · answer #6 · answered by Stargatebabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would schedule some serious time to talk to him about it. Let him know that you deserve better, and the only reason you care is because your relationship is important. Is he open to counselling?
2006-09-08 15:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by morecowbelljim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE SHOULD GIVE JESUS HIS CROSS BACK, DUMP THE HUSBAND, AND FIND A GUY WHO TREATS HER WITH RESPECT, COMPASSION, AND HAS EMPATHY. IT IS HER FAULT FOR PUTTING UP WITH IT, OR THINKING SHE CAN CHANGE OR FIX HIM. SHE IS FOOLISH TO THINK SHE CAN. SHE NEEDS TO RAISE HER STANDARDS, AND NOW ALLOW PEOPLE TO TREAT HER LIKE THAT.
2006-09-08 15:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, that is the way they all are. Most marriages break up.
They can't keep their pants on.
2006-09-08 15:11:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
secret to a happy marriage.....good communication..
Learn to listen and accept change...
marriage is about a partnership..
2006-09-08 15:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by snowflake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋