"what are you looking at creep,have you a problem"?
2006-09-08 07:49:15 · 24 answers · asked by Timmoshanko 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes i do know what you mean, and i am a women, I wonder why, women seem to dress up, so that just the right person will look at them, if you know what i mean. There are girls and older women , walking up the street, and they rather are wearing nothing. You can't help but look, and i am not into women, so i do feel sorry for males, because what are they suppose to do. its is a hard one, and it would be worse a nite clubs etc, glad i am female . and glad i do not need or wont to dress wearing next to nothing..........
2006-09-08 07:59:44 · answer #1 · answered by donua1022 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was younger I dressed sexier I suppose-well more feminine and now I am more likely to dress for comfort-
In another words I used to wear dresses and skirts andnow really only wear trousers/jeans etc...
I have to be honest it doesn't matter what a woman wears, but it can make a woman feel uncomfortable about herself.
There was something the other day that really made me feel uncomfortable, you tell me if you would feel comfortable after this...
I was walking home with my kids, wearing trousers, jersey and a hat (always got my hat on, hair rolled up into a bun)
As I was walking home there was this vehicle that drove past me. I was crossing the road with my kids to see this same vechicle turn around and drive back past me. I didn't think anything of it and saw it disappear around the corner. It was a day my guts had been trying to send me some bad signals so wasn't feeling comfortable anyhow. I got home and was waiting for my kids to come in doors to then see this exactly the same vehicle pull up outside my house. These two guys in it looked directly at my face and smirked, before turning around and going. They actually stopped, directly outside my house
I didn't feel flattered, or good about myself. It made me feel very uncomfortable actually-two strangers as good as followed me home. I am no spring chicken, lets hope the 91 year old face did the job! ;) ;)
I come so close to saying exactly what you said 'Got a problem, want a picture?' but closed the door instead!
I try not to be rude, but sometimes we have to or be blunt, and I say it exactly how it is!!
2006-09-08 10:03:06 · answer #2 · answered by WW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's something I have long pondered about too. Why do women always flash their wedding rings as soon as they see you coming toward them in the street, whether you are looking at them with any sort of interest or not? That seems to me an act of aggression, the height of arrogance and very rude, but I guess they see it as self defence. Do men do it to women? I think not. A cat may look at a queen, may it not? In women's eyes it seems, only people they fancy are supposed to look. What happened to generosity of spirit? Share what you have and are with all, I say and trust that they will not abuse it. There's a difference between a look and a leer after all. If you are ever inclined to the latter, or a quick bit of mentally undressing (we're flesh and blood and not made of wood after all), just don't let them see you doing it. They've probably done the same thing to a dozen "fit" men already that day. If you're lucky, for someone soon one of them will be you.
2006-09-08 08:17:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because guys don't just look, they stare. And staring is considered rude and can make a women feel uncomfortable and self concious. Instead of staring, how about a nice innocent compliment like "you look nice" and then go about your business.
2006-09-08 07:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all down to chemistry and technique. They dress to look attractive but have a specific idea of what sort of man they want to attract , not every one is attracted to the same type fortunately.
2006-09-08 07:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those women suck. When I dress up sexy, I expect to get looked at, and if someone gives me a compliment, I say thank you, you just made my night. Some women are just mean.
2006-09-08 07:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by Becky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most of us girls are just very aesthetically pleasant to look at. A girl usually dresses up for herself and then others. If girls say that to you however I think that it is mean and spiteful - I mean they should be pleased to get admiring glances , and even though you may not be their type they shouldn't be out and out nasty to you!!
2006-09-08 08:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Andielep 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does depend on who is looking at them. Thats because we all like to look at and get noticed by pretty people and when she gets attention from someone not pretty (handsome, if you must) enough she feels shes selling out cheap. Even men dont like to get 'looks' from uglies so it isnt just women.
2006-09-08 07:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by nicemanfromindia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't dress up for your benefit,just because they look sexy,doesn't mean they are on the pull.It could be for bf,hubby etc.Women also like to look good,it makes them feel better about themselves.
2006-09-08 08:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by michael k 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are just crazy like that. We wear tight fitting pants to show off our booty but when a man compliments, we gut punch em. If we have big boobs we gut punch em when they stare to long. If we dress nice to show off our curvaceous full bodies, we gut punch em when they call us sexy.
2006-09-08 07:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♣DreamDancer♣ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋