One night we were set to hang out at a bar, and she knew that, and she was going to hang out with her friends that night anyways, then at the very last second she just shows at his house and just HAD to watch a movie that night. Cancelled her other plans, doesn't seem to care at all what other people already have going on. Normally I have no problem whatsoever with the gf's of my friends, but she is so needy and keeps pulling this stuff over and over. I think I'm gonna have to stop pretending I like her, even in front of my friend.
2006-09-08 07:48:57 · 33 answers · asked by s_e_e 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
BTW, she gets on other people's nerves too, it is not just me.
2006-09-08 07:52:51 · update #1
Lot of people are telling me "don't be needy yourself" or "sounds like you just want more time with your friend". I can understand how y'all might get that impression, but that isn't the situation at all. He could hang out with her everynight of the week and that's his life of course. But when plans have ALREADY been made, and everybody knows what is going on, a person shouldn't wreck them at the last minute... repeatedly. It is the WAY she went about it that is aggravating. Maybe she just doesn't know any better.
2006-09-08 08:07:00 · update #2
That's pretty inconsiderate of her. If what she did the night you and your friend were supposed to go out was an isolated incident, I'd say maybe she was just having a crappy day or something and needed a little attention. But if she does that kind of thing all the time, your friend needs to watch out because he could wind up losing all of his friends when they get tired of being sold out for his girlfriend.
2006-09-08 07:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by Shortstack 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
By pretending to like this girl, you're doing yourself and your friend a disservice. You should never be fake for anyone. You don't have to be rude to her but you don't have to be buddy buddy either.
Ok, with that said... be prepared for some possible backlash from your friend. If he's truly a good friend, he'll ask you what's up and you can be honest with him about how you feel about this girl. If he's not, then he'll probably get all sorts of bent about your attitude about her. Just be honest and let him know that you really do want what's best for him but you have a hard time with this girl because....
Good luck!
2006-09-08 08:00:40 · answer #2 · answered by cgspitfire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because her bf isn't prepared to be pleasant and positioned your self in his shoes. What if she were unmarried and needed you to be pals with a female friend? She in basic terms needs to play video games so tell her to stop calling because you respect her relationship and opt to stay out of their drama! no longer some thing incorrect collectively with her boyfriend is she met after the split because that's not his fault! i do not have my exes spectacular out with my husband nor their women folk spectacular out both. In a public position we are all well mannered, yet no spectacular out. diverse in case you had childrens, yet except that it truly isn't any!
2016-11-06 22:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, not wrong, Does your friend see what this chick is doing or is he too in Lust??? These are the worst chicks of all... When she is done training him she will most likley dump him or start coming onto his friends.....You shoud see my buddies girl if ya wanna see a winner... She is in her 40's and won't even allow him to have friends, can't watch or look at porn or other girls, no mtv or trashy tv... He can't even mention exes or talk to any girls at parties or he is flirting.. He has been putting up with this for yaers....
2006-09-08 07:55:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of his life so much and get a little more of your life and it wont bother you so much. sure you care about your friend and i read your point however, it is his life and you have no control over it so get over it. most likely it wont last and your buddy will be all yours again. you sound a bit needy yourself. try to do new stuff with just yourself. this will take the focus offf of your buddys life and possibly save your friendship.
2006-09-08 07:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a good reason not to like her. I think if you don't like her you should just avoid her and only hang out with your friend when she's not around. My best friend any my boyfriend don't get along very well, so I just respect their opinions about eachother and only hang out with them at seperate times. Talk to your friend about it and tell him its nothing personal but you would rather not be around him when he's with her. If he's a good friend, he will understand.
2006-09-08 07:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ... if he's your best friend you have to be honest with him (or at least act honest) ... you don't have to be like "Dude , I really hate your girlfriend" ... you don't even have to tell him ... just stop pretending to like her, and hopefully he'll get the picture ... he might be a little angry at first , but eventually he'll probably see how annoying and clingy she is and let her go ... good luck !!
2006-09-08 07:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by yankee_fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well lets see i'm a girl and i think that is wrong, cause every guy needs his time with his friends. If i was you just mention it in front of the both of em' like maybe "we haven't done anything in a while, just us guys" I don'r know what to tell you but goodluck!
2006-09-08 07:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by Krystle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know this is your friends girlfriend, if he does not have a problem with it, them I guess it is your problem, have you mention the situation to your friend? Tell him I am having a hard time trying to be nice to her, she just does not think about no one but herself, I just don"t want to be around her any more!!
2006-09-08 08:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is canceling on you it's because he wants to. He's a big boy and makes his own decisions. She's the girlfriend. Maybe he actually prefers her feminine appearance to yours.
2006-09-08 07:53:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋