Do you think it is more important to men or women and why?
2006-09-08 07:41:33 · 13 answers · asked by vdubbchick 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
50/50 again on this question. I know many women want to point fingers and say all the men in the universe. But its just not true, that much anyway. I mean we know guys are pretty obvious about wanting some sex. But I have girl friends that will be sneaky and manipulative through sex to get anything. For them its their tool. Prime example I have a friend that wanted to get a puppy and she knew her bf has allergies, but she gave him a bj anyway, and convinced him to get it for. Whats worse, is he is the only one taking care of the dog and taking enough allergie meds to last a lifetime, while she can't even stand the dog now. I have another friend also a girl that isn't afraid to say she wants sex either. Sometimes she is as bold as going up to guys and saying I need to **** and I'm horny so meet me at her address so they can get it on. Part of the reason I can't stand going any where with her. Guys just want sex cuz it feels good and they try to see how many different womeon they can get before they get married. Women, for some place the biggest importance on sex to get their way.
2006-09-08 07:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tie. Both sexes think it is important for different reasons.
Men think sex is important because they have sexual needs that have to have filled. They don't feel like "real men" if they aren't having sex. It's something they enjoy and love and they see no reason why they shouldn't have it.
Women feel it is important because for them, it provides a special bond that can not be created any other way. Women see sex as a way of getting closer with their partner. Woman also have sexual needs just the same way as men but just for different reasons.
Yes, I am generalizing and I'm sure I'll piss some people off but this is my opinion and if you don't like it...suck it... :-) Have a wonderful day!
2006-09-08 07:48:17 · answer #2 · answered by melspags6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that men used to place more importance on sex, but these days I think it is the women. Women have become more open minded about sex. I know for me Sex is right up there with the emotional stuff.
2006-09-08 07:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think we men tend to place more importance on the physical sex, Women on the emotional. Men can have sex without love but women seem to need the feeling of attachment. Of course this is logical from the point of view that women in the past needed a man to look after her if she got pregnant so had to feel that he had a strong emotional tie to her.Or is this all bunkum.
2006-09-08 07:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think men place more importance on the sexual side of the relationship. Women need more of an emotional balance, sex included.
2006-09-08 07:44:05 · answer #5 · answered by Becky 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we are continuously bombarded with the help of sexual pictures and innuendos. that's on television, commercials, video clips, magazines. everywhere we turn there is something to arouse. i'm no longer particular that each body is keen about sex besides the undeniable fact that the media supply the visual attraction that they are. it type of feels to be the biggest vendor. I received't get into the version between sex and making love (there's a huge massive difference) because you basically requested if people position too a lot value on sex. I do imagine, besides the undeniable fact that, that the leisure marketplace has demeaned the act of creating love and despatched the message that it truly is all about sex. it is having a detrimental result on little ones who're starting to be up believing that that's largely a pleasing act and in no way expertise the authentic value behind the act and the sentiments that are meant to be in contact. That being suggested, it truly is mandatory even as contained in the right context. A loving relationship between 2 people. It helps a actual connection as well to the emotional connection.
2016-11-25 20:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the sex act is more important to men. I think for women the intimacy that leads to sex is more important.
2006-09-08 07:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Why do you ask? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More important to men. That is all they ever think about
2006-09-08 08:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how U look at it. IT is a gift of nature to every organism. Human the most selfish animal derives pleasyre form evrything and any thing. It is sex when both are willing and a rape whenone tries to over power the other.
2006-09-08 07:49:13 · answer #9 · answered by macline k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person. I have met both androgenous men and women that have very little interest. every person is different and some dont like to admit their feelings to just anyone.
2006-09-08 07:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by smiths j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋