2006-09-08 07:35:57 · 20 answers · asked by mony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because appearance matters!!
I dont care what anyone says - if you arnt physically attracted to someone the most you will ever be is friends.
2006-09-08 07:40:56 · answer #1 · answered by AJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most boys want to get laid, first and foremost. Also, if someone started dating somebody they weren't attracted to, the relationship wouldn't work anyway. You can't have a relationship with somebody you think is completely unattractive. I judge by your question (and your spelling) that you are very young. Wait until you mature before worrying about relationships. Wait until the boys mature, too. They begin thinking about that sort of thing later on, but attraction always has to be a factor in choosing a mate.
2006-09-08 07:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People. Not boys, people. Women do this too. Most people are selfish and figure they need to find someone attractive first, and someone who will conform to their ideals second. The idea of soul, commitment, compatibility, or even love, are usually lost on these people. Why do you think the divorce rates are so high. Just have patience, an intelligent one is out there.
2006-09-08 07:39:26 · answer #3 · answered by wizard8100@sbcglobal.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because boys couldn't care less what a girl is like outside of the bed! They are interested is sex ad only sex! But once they get a little older they'll start to think of future and weddings and family and well still think of sex but then they star looking at the soul too.
2006-09-08 07:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just how boys are. I would like to say that it all changes with age, but sad to say that it doesn't get much better.
The good news is some boys, just like some men, don't have that personality flaw and those are the ones to focus on.
I would recommend you just focus on receiving the best education possible and you will eventually grow to learn you were better off without their attention.
2006-09-08 07:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So enable's say your in a bar and a guy sees an attractive female, he will bypass over to her for her seems, yet stay for the nature. no be counted how fantastically a woman is, if her personality sucks, no guy will want her for a relationship. He may basically use her and performance sex, yet received't see her as a lengthy time period marrige textile female.
2016-11-25 20:52:18 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are instinctively driven by looks. Don't get me wrong, I'm a commitment guy and I love being in a relationship; however, before I met my girlfriend, I would look to find someone I was attracted too before I would start a conversation. The way I look at it, you need to be attracted to the person to have a romantic and physical relationship with them.
2006-09-08 07:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks drag us in and then they use the utilimate weapon sex and when they are hot at first it is better until you realize they are crap,
but that in itself is a learning experience a band sang a song about it I like the white stains on your dress I like the way you love me best I hate the places that we go.
2006-09-08 07:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are the same way..They pick by appearance. Who wants to be seen in public with a ugly person.
2006-09-08 07:41:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately people are so superficial and cant get past what one looks like in todays time. Thanks to videos and beautiful people in magazines and total focus on the most beautiful people in american. Nobody cares about a good soul and decentcy.
2006-09-08 07:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by MARIE B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋