in the past months i have been going through the big change (ladies you know what i'm talking about) and my sex drive has gone to a 10 to a 4 me and my husband used to be like ribbit and now it's like i never want to make love anymore whats up with that.
2006-09-08 07:21:51 · 20 answers · asked by latara m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you need to light up the fire. remember when you guys had it the 1st time. what makes you like him. try some other routine
2006-09-08 07:25:04 · answer #1 · answered by ○believe○me○ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your 29 and lost your sex drive!? Changes? What changes occur at 29?! Sweety your problem is mental and could be several reasons. Your also a Newlywed! You should Be having sex several times a day!! Sugar something is clearly wrong and no one is here is qualified to answer. What your dealing with is NOT normal! I am 41 married with five kids and still want sex in fact hubby and I have sex 5 - 7 times a week! There are so many reason why this could be happening that it would be unfair to guess and by unfair I mean unfair to you! Look back to when this first started or you first noticed see if you can find answers there other than that seek professional help if you can afford it.
2006-09-08 07:28:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need to make it more interesting. Use toys like vibrators, dildo's. They have some that hit the g-spot. It is always nice to try something new, and it keeps the excitement going. I know my husband really enjoys helping me use toys, ha ha.
We also have a handy cam, so sometimes we film ourselves. It is a different type of excitement when you know there is a camera filming everything!
There is also this cream you can apply that can make you ready to have an orgasm on the spot, and make it more intense. It use to be sold with the company, Slumber Parties, and it is called X-Scream.
Amazon also sells sex toys. Just plug in the word, "Vibrator."
2006-09-08 07:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by ForeverLove 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope..sorry, I don't know what you're talking about. I'm 29 and I feel like I've reached some sort of peak where I want it all the time. Needless to say, my husband is quite happy about. Now back to you, I'm not sure what's causing a drop in your libido. Maybe sex has become too monotonous and you need to spice it up a bit?
2006-09-08 07:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to keep things fresh, give each other massages, take showers together..have time apart too like a girls night and let him hang out with his friends otherwise it burns things out because you know every step the other person makes.. Also you must get enough sleep during the week, I assume you work and between work and cleaning at home it can wear you down. As far as you go he will need to pamper you and give a lot of foreplay...try doing it anywhere but the bedroom...good luck
2006-09-08 07:30:52 · answer #5 · answered by Miss J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 29, no I don't know what you're going through.
But it can be several things causing you to feel this way. Stress, eating, and sleeping habits all affect your sex drive.
Make sure you eat a proper diet, get plenty of rest, and don't sweat the small stuff.
Worst comes to worst. Pop in some porn and get some toys. You got to change it up and keep it fun.
2006-09-08 07:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by aQTinMVny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, I'm 29 and married one year. With him for 6 years, and I'm going through the same thing!! I love him more than anything but sometimes I skeeve at the thought of sex! What the hell is wrong with us?
Yasmin huh??
2006-09-08 07:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by Angelina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find things you like and be adventerous. Don't hold back and make a conscious effort. I've been married for 6 yrs and i'm 25 so i'm learning a lot. You have to have a good sex life!!
2006-09-08 07:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by dana v 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The change in your desire could be related to so many things; stress, anxiety, depression, lack of time and space for yourself, changes in attitude about yourself or your relationship, sexual response problems, etc. There also may be some medical explanations.
2006-09-08 07:33:55 · answer #9 · answered by Marcus P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal that sex drives slow down but they will go back up
you're stressed out from the wedding and all...it will get better with time...specially once you hit 40 girl you'll be humping like rabbits again
2006-09-08 07:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The big change? I'm a woman and I don't understand. You're much too young for menopause.
2006-09-08 07:24:29 · answer #11 · answered by Demon Doll 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋