my teacher called me fat and ugly and vicous pushed me off me chair to get me to stand and hit me on head twice with a pen
would should i do ? tipz ?
2006-09-08 07:16:44 · 20 answers · asked by x_babi_doll_x 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Teaching
What are you doing to your teacher to cause this reaction? Teachers are used to abuse, but you have to have gotten on his/her last nerve somehow. They're not supposed to, but when somebody's that much of an ***, sometimes you just can't help it. I would review your behavior in the classroom and modify it if it's causing this type of reaction.
2006-09-08 07:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That kind of thing teahers are definitely no allowed to do. No physical contact with students except in emergency or to save them from danger. You could seek advice from another teacher or adult whom you trust about what to do, and tell your parent(s) if you can. But remember, you have a part to play in the bargain at school too and should show respect for your teachers and do as you are told, even if you don't feel like it. That's how it is when you are in a job at work. "The boss may not always be right, but he/she is always the boss." There are ways of sorting problems with your teacher/boss if you feel you have them and you have a right to fair treatment too. My daughter is a teacher in a secondary school and I hear a lot from her about what goes on. She always has the interest of her students at heart and tries to help even the difficult and "naughty" ones who give her a hard time to do their best too. That way they get the most out of school and the school gets the best out of them. It's a two way street, see?
2006-09-08 14:42:28 · answer #2 · answered by Bunnylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been really bullied then yes, report it. However I would also have to ask you did you deserve what you did. Are you a model pupil or do you tend to cause trouble. Teachers are only human and sometimes students can push them too far. Before you make any complaint think if it is really justified. Are you happy to wreck this teachers life and career just becuase you have been maybe causing trouble yourself?
2006-09-08 14:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by Timmi007 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your principal, This behavior is not allowed. If you have a friend in the class that will back you up I would take that friend or person with you to the principal's office. Teacher's are not allowed to bully students around.
ps- even if you did misbehave this teacher has no right to treat you the way he did.
2006-09-08 18:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by jrealitytv 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound quite repulsive.
What were you doing standing on a chair?
Why is your spelling so dreadful?
If I were you I would be grateful that you are even allowed in the school in the first place. Get on with your work and stop messing about.
2006-09-08 18:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first- you are lying or exaggerating.
tell the truth. I imagine the teacher was probably out of line in what he/she said but you are embellishing for the sake of a good story. this will not win you any favors with anyone.
secondly; do you really spell like this or are you trying something out and hoping it catches on?
thirdly- you never mention what you did to turn the teacher's attention towards you. that is surprisingly absent. what did you say/do before this happened.
you should apologize and tell him/her that you accept his/her apology in return.
happy school year
2006-09-08 14:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by artful dodger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Did your teacher really do this or are you asking a hypothetical question?
If your teacher did do this, then no, NO teacher is allowed to use physical force on you or make racist or offensive remarks like this. They are also certainly not allowed to bully you (the same goes for your classmates). As for tapping you on the head with a pencil, I personally do not do things like that when I teach students, as I believe that it is disrespectful to them, although some teachers do this as a way of showing that they have authority over you. In the past, the teacher wasn't even allowed to touch you or even break up a fight! However, the teacher is now allowed to use REASONABLE force to restrain you. E.g. if you had a fight with a classmate, the teacher would be allowed to push you apart and take you outside of the classroom. I think that tapping you on the head with a pencil would be regarded as ok, if done in play and you were happy with it. However, it's clearly unacceptable in this case, as was pushing you off the chair, if it wasn't in the interests of your or the rest of the class' safety.
It sounds to me like the teacher lost his/her cool with you (and therefore control over your class) after you or someone in your class played up. However, I'm not excusing this type of behaviour, as it is totally unprofessional and unhelpful and could now lead to other problems with your class and other classes. This teacher clearly needs support when dealing with misbehaviour in your class and in building up a good relationship with you and your other classmates.
I suggest that you (or get one of your mates to) write down exactly what happened in this lesson and speak to your parents and personal tutor/another teacher that you like about the events leading up to this incident and talk about whether you have grounds for making a complaint. If they say that you do, the next step would be to arrange an appointment with your teacher and your personal tutor/someone like that with you to talk about what happened in the lesson to prompt this behaviour (make sure that you bring your piece of paper with your description of what happened on it) and decide what you and the teacher can do to put things right. E.g. If you did misbehave, you might want to apologise to the teacher, as this will probably prompt the teacher to apologise to you. If you didn't misbehave, explain how upset you felt etc about how the teacher treated you. If he/she is normally reasonable when talking to you on your own, then I'm sure that he/she will want to put things right with you and you won't have any future problems. If this doesn't work, the next step would be to talk to a senior member of staff, such as the head of year (your personal tutor/teacher you like will give you further advice about this). If this doesn't have a response, get your parents to make a formal complaint to the school on your behalf about the situation.
Whatever you do, don't go into future lessons mouthing off about how'll you'll get your parents involved etc or encourage classmates to pay up even more for the teacher, as this will make the school less inclined to take your complaint seriously and even make things worse!
Good luck!
2006-09-08 16:34:17 · answer #7 · answered by ice.mario 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this before or after you threw a desk at her?
Seriously though, if what you're saying is true, you should have already gone to the principal about it. If you're making this up, for the sake of everyone whose life comes into contact with yours, please learn how to spell. Punctuation wouldn't hurt either.
2006-09-08 17:25:10 · answer #8 · answered by elizabeth_ashley44 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your teacher is probably fed up with you not learning how to spell correctly. Maybe if you made an effort in class, the teacher would focus their attention on someone else.
2006-09-08 14:20:54 · answer #9 · answered by 6 hail marys 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
tell the head ! , and also you could tell the police and they could charge him/her for assult, there is a teacher in my school like that , he says were all ugly , and dumb and idiots , he also calls this boi patrick because he says he looks like sponge bob square pants friend patrick ! lol
2006-09-08 14:21:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋