I really love my man i said hell yea he said dat he neva will hurt me but right know im in Pr to finish da 10th grade and hes in the 12th i got to wait till i finish da 10th grade then im gonna go ova there and i know he aint cheating on me. I really love him and i know he loves me should i wait till i finish skool. My mom already said yea. I meet his family they nice as hell. So wat should i do?
2006-09-08 07:02:41 · 20 answers · asked by Stephanny A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What is your question ...? If you want to marry him, and you mom said it was okay, I don't really see the problem...
2006-09-08 07:06:37 · answer #1 · answered by OnE GiRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
silver is spot on. What's your hurry? I've been on the adult side of 20 longer than the kid side and I'm here to tell you don't be in such a big hurry. Its not that adulthood is so bad and does not have its rewards( children older than you) but you have one chance to be young and the window is not all that big maybe 18 to 25. Accept what you have as what it is, a high school romance. Start formulating some plans for the next ten years and try to fit some higher education into the mix. Marriage in this world is already a 50/50 proposition at your age its worse maybe 20/80. Spend some time being a kid ,working on your English and forget about marriage for a while. After he gets out of school and you have two years left his whole viewpoint on life and where you fit in might change drastically.
2006-09-08 14:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two months isn't long enough to know that you want to spend the rest of your life with somebody. Some people don't even realize they are a bad match until YEARS into their relationship. I had a boyfriend who seemed absolutely perfect, I loved him very much, and we thought we were perfect for each other. After about 3 months he started to become emotionally abusive and we broke up. I hear that he has been physically abusive also before. I know you're thinking... "but we're perfect, that will never happen to me" but just because you love him right now, how do you know for sure?
Also, if you truly are meant to be, you will still love each other 5 years down the road, and there is no reason not to wait until then.
2006-09-08 14:08:40 · answer #3 · answered by DaniLynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school. Go out and live life. Most people don't know themselves until they're 30. Just take the time to finish your education and work for a few years. Being married (staying married) is hard work and not so fun at times.
2006-09-08 14:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by shrinkydinkheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First learn to speak correct english and then you should wait until you finish school you will find the same things u want this year are not be the same two years from now. And why would your mother say yes to you marrying someone already!
2006-09-08 14:08:58 · answer #5 · answered by april j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school try to go into a college or get a good job out of high school. Learn how to support yourself before you think of ever getting married. Your to young to even think about getting married. Marriage life is hard work and it is not at all what you might fantasise about. Say you did get married to this boy then later on in life you are going to feel like you missed part of your life. Just have fun being boyfriend and girlfriend your to young.
2006-09-08 14:09:43 · answer #6 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh, finish school first and foremost, 2nd wait till you have been together longer than 2 months. i was pregnant at 17 and had to drop out of school, I am now 31 and just got to go back to college a couple years ago! Wait as long as you can! you have got your whole life ahead of you! Enjoy being young while you can!
2006-09-08 14:10:47 · answer #7 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What in the World are you saying???? Do you even know how your flow is coming across. WOW!!!
Please finish your education... Go to college, travel and PLEASE.... "Don't EVEN THINK"about marriage until you've matured MUCH... MUCH... MUCH more.
Judging from the way you're expressing yourself and your inability to really understand the magnitude of your reasoning or understanding of life... you need to RUN from that situation with a quickness.... and acquire a greater sense of life experiences. Your mom is straight up trippin if she agrees with this "so called" marriage. Did she finish her education? Seriously? (no offense intended).... Wow!!!... I mean WOW!!!
Who and where you are at 16 (in terms of your exposure to life and level maturity) is not (hopefully) who or where you'll be 10 to 15 years from now. If you get married without first having the proper education/training and having opportunities to travel and meet other people and experience various places would be the most tragic mistake (especially in your case) in your life...
DON'T do it. You'll certainly live to regret this decision if you do... TRUST.
2006-09-08 14:29:05 · answer #8 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First finish school. Your spelling is very bad. Heck so is your English. He is also a boy not a man. You are very young and have lots of time to plan out your life. Take it slow.
2006-09-08 14:05:52 · answer #9 · answered by silver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school. Go to college and get a sound career first. The guy is young,horney and most likely broke. If you get married now, in two years you, him and a kid or two will be on welfare.
Grow up before you get married.
2006-09-08 14:15:03 · answer #10 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly suggest you explore what love is.
And while you are doing that, finish high school, go to college/training program and develop some skills.
2006-09-08 14:07:27 · answer #11 · answered by TheSlayor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋