Hi there
before couple of days my GF told me that she dont have anyfeelings for me ( she loved me too much ) but now she's saying she's not feeling anything ( and i'm 100% sure that she is not cheating on me ) so girls my question :
is it possible for her to love me again ?
if yes what should i do ?
should i change my way of treatment ?
really dont know what to do :(
thanks waiting for your reply
2006-09-08 07:01:48 · 14 answers · asked by ramroom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i got one question for ya is this girl really worth it?
i mean that in no offense but she stated one day she saying she loves you the next she got no feelings for you let her go if you did nothing wrong ie you treated her right why should you change
if your a nice guy and she she dont love you for who you are move on and find someone who will love you for you
2006-09-08 07:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by lisa7777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess anythings possible but maybe she just needs some space. Don't call her, let her call you no matter how hard it gets! Let her have time to remember what she loved about you. Absence makes the heart grow fonder sometimes. If it's meant to be she'll miss you. When she does call don't bring up the topic of her not having feelings for you anymore don't press it..Leave that alone! Just be charming make her laugh and don't put pressure on yourself or try too hard to make her love you again. If your too desperate it's always a turn off! I hope this helps! Good Luck to you!
2006-09-08 07:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. It could be that you've reached a stage in your relationship where you don't always feel in love or connected, and that can result in her thinking she is not always having feelings for you. It kind of depends how long you've been together, but give her some time, talk it through with her as sometimes it needs time to understand that being in love and passion are replaced by loving someone. So yes I do think she could still love you and feel it again but in a different way.
2006-09-08 07:10:58 · answer #3 · answered by V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible..but there's nothing that you can specifically DO in order to change how she feels...!! it is up to her. however u can try to find out what is going on. communicate w/ her, talk to her. most likely she is bored, the relationship is not growing, OR she may be interested in being single again, or even someone else may be flirting w/ her. in either case, she is not being satisfied somehow... mentally, emotionally, physically, or even just being confused and not knowing what she wants...... all those things factor in together in a relationship. if something is not being satisfied, there will be a disconnect. u need to find out what that is, if you truly want to be w/ her. *but*, ur not guaranteed to find out if she is really confused....so sometimes, letting someone go is truly loving her. because she is not happy, you have to let her go out and FIND happiness...even if it's not with you. :( it's a sacrifice, but you are looking out for her best interests if u truly love her. and u are also giving yourself a chance to find someone who loves you, who wants to be w/ u, who is excited to be w/ u, etc etc.. u deserve that too. a lukewarm relationship that doesn't grow will most likely wither and the love sours..... u will end up treating her badly if she doesn't satisfy Your needs or wants either. therefore, talk to her. communicate, find out what you can do to help the situation. if nothing works, let her go. don't be angry, but let her find what is right in her life. if she wants to come back, u have to really think about if u are Right for Each Other. but it has to be a CHOICE that she and you make, not just staying together because of comfortability. that is the worst....!
2006-09-08 07:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make some one love you that doesnt love you there are may types of love sometimes it is just the love of a friend that makes you feel like your in love then like a lightbulb your not in love with that person, you love that person but not in love with them and there is a big difference to many people talk themself in to thinking they are in love when they dont know what being inlove really is. better to find out now instead of yrs down the road. so suck it up life goes on
2006-09-08 07:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by barbara g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wants space.... If you leave her alone for a while and you go out and have fun she will miss you. It all depends if that's what you really want to wait around until she falls for you again. Just remember that this will always be in your relationship even if you do get back together.
2006-09-08 07:07:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she dosent love you sweetie than theres nothing you can really do but try and be there while you both go thru this! trust me it isnt easy 4 her and im sure it isnt easy 4 u...but just talk to her find out why she feels this way now and if there is anything you can change about youre self...
2006-09-08 07:04:32 · answer #7 · answered by danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and go out with your friends. The more she will see you happy the more she will probably want you. I would not want to play these games if I were you. She either wants you or she doesn't. Have fun meet new people.
2006-09-08 07:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-30 11:39:02 · answer #9 · answered by alisha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you treating her differently for her not to have feelings for you?
You just can't make someone to love you.
2006-09-08 08:24:12 · answer #10 · answered by daisie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋