I'm married also but when all of us from the office get together for a few drinks it's almost unbearable to not kiss her. Actually that's all I would do as I would not want to see her kids hurt.
2006-09-08 06:57:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A lot of times Office romances, ends up a mess, sometimes someone has to leave. So don't start no mess if you don't want no mess. Believe me it will get back to your wife. Have more respect for your self.
2006-09-08 07:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes married and she has children
You would be called " a homewrecker" how do u think her children would feel without there father . Making out with someone whos married with children u should step back and put yourself in her husbands shoes . . He will find out no matter how confidetial. And your wife could also find out .. If u dont want to be with your wife .. you kissing other women shows that u dont . you should be with the person you should be with . Letting your "Affair " Go on . will only hurt your wife and her husband more . You may only be kissing now but on down the road things are bound to change in to dating , Outside the office , of course leading to sexual Incounters . Then getting caught hurting Your wife and Her Husband and Children , I think if You Truly Love your wife . You would end the "Relations" With your Co-worker . You might set your standards as only "Kissing" Her but its still considered "Cheating".
2006-09-08 07:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by WorshipMeKthx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. You're both married and it's wrong. Her kids would still end up hurt if their father found out what happened between you and his wife. A kiss seems harmless but it most likely do more damage than good. Try to think about your spouses rather than what the both of you want.
2006-09-08 07:02:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that you are married!! Why would you want to kiss another woman? You can't have your cake and eat it too! Stop it right now before you hurt your wife because what goes around, comes around. Your co-worker knows better as well and hopefully, she'll stop it too.
2006-09-08 07:03:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Desire is a natural thing; that said, being that you are married, you agreed under god's and the state's law that you were stay faithful to your wife.
If I was you, I would stay away from the following combination: Booze and your coworker. Don't be an asshole...don't cheat on your wife. How would you like it if your wife was getting drunk with some dude?
2006-09-08 07:01:17 · answer #5 · answered by flyboop_2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kissing may only be the beginning. Who knows where it could lead to! Before you do anything, think about how many people would be hurt if it got out. Also think about what may be missing in your own marriage to give you these feelings.
2006-09-08 07:01:41 · answer #6 · answered by tracey e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called morality. How would you like it if your wife did the same thing? Keep away from her. Never mix business with pleasure. It can cause you a lot of grief and even your job.
2006-09-08 07:01:10 · answer #7 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop getting in the temptations of being so close to her so you can kiss her. Don't do it, you'll destroy many lives including your own after the pleasure of kissing has worn out.
2006-09-08 07:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh, you know the answer! you are just coming her to get someone to okay your desires to be a cheater! come on! get outside of yourselfish desires and dont even go out to these office get togethers if you cant have any self control as a husband!!!
2006-09-08 07:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're already to close to this person how did you get there when you get the urge to kiss just imagine your wife and kids walking in and finding you kissing
2006-09-08 07:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by littlewing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋