2006-09-08 06:39:11 · 19 answers · asked by busymomof4 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
tackle him in the kitchen and say (in a sexy voice) that you've always wanted to do the plumber.
2006-09-08 06:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start ignoring him! Do things you have not before, go places by yourself talk more on the phone with some one anyone all these things will raise his eye brows, he'll see a change and wonder whats up with that and start paying more attention to you... Walk around the house naked as well like others said more then what you normally do while doing so drop things and bend over infront of him to pick them up, do dishes naked. By some new clothes some that you would not normally buy something sexy and bold and strut your stuff! Have fun and be humorous!
2006-09-08 13:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Become involved in what he is doing. I mean just be with him. You don't have to do anything, just be with him. I'd notice that. When you stop running around doing chores and making sure everything is just so, and sit next to him he will notice that you are wanting attention. He will give it to you. Watch. But only expect something at least on the second try. Asking for attention doesn't work, it makes a guy feel like, What? Being apart of his world is what he likes, then he will invite you back in.
2006-09-08 14:00:29 · answer #3 · answered by james.ampmerch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know you are feeling neglected. Make sure you schedule time for each other where you focus on each others needs. Make sure you are taking care of your self as well. Have a day for yourself. Go to the spa, buy a new outfit, get your hair done.
If he still doesn't notice after this then it's time to consider counseling.
2006-09-08 13:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by aQTinMVny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him the question "Why do you not pay attention to me?" If he does not directly answer the question, it's about sex. Ask him what you two together can do to make it better. If he says it's because you constantly nag him, then it's because you constantly nag him, stop nagging him and build him up. If he storms outside without answering anything then the reason he does not pay attention is because he storms out without answering your questions.
2006-09-08 13:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by James K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pay closer attention to yourself !
2006-09-08 13:43:17 · answer #6 · answered by hre328 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/ sophia. asking for attention will only make him try harder to ignore you. Men love the chase, so start running girl! But not too far or too fast or he won't even bother.
2006-09-08 14:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by jhvnmt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something u use to do when you first got together :) it will remind him of the past and maybe bring back the fire :) and you have to remember you both have changed and that may be another reason hes different. Good luck!!!
2006-09-08 13:42:57 · answer #8 · answered by jenn03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Sophie. Ignore him. Treat him like he treats you. See if he notices. Quit doing stuff to him. When he asks you why you did not do_____ say you don't appreciate it anyway so, I am going on strike till things change.
2006-09-08 13:55:52 · answer #9 · answered by hello 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may not be able to. Suggest counseling. If it doesn't help, skedaddle. Hope there are no young children involved.
2006-09-08 13:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋