My son is who is 5 years old does'nt want to go to school. we tried several ways but no use.
He went to preschool for 3 months when he was 3 years but could not send him because of financial constraints, later when my wife got a job we put him in day care, initially he did not go(he even hit teachers also) but slowly he got used to it but for summer holidays we did not send him to day care so he enjoyed home all along and now again he does'nt want to go to school.
He is very stubborn and admant in nature.
Any suggestions?
Thanks.
2006-09-08 06:33:50 · 10 answers · asked by SarmaA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
drive him to school, push him in the door and leave.
Who is the parent here?!
2006-09-08 06:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by crale70 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Some children suffer from severe seperation anxiety. He may need reassurance from you that you love him and that you will be home when school is over.
If you don't feel like that is the problem, then you have to just get control of the situation through consistency and discipline. He HAS to go to school-you know that! Rewards work better than punishment sometimes. Come up with a system of rewards so that when he goes to school without a fuss, he gets a treat of some kind. If all else fails, you will just have to continue to win the battle until he realizes he doesn't have any other option. Whatever you do--DO NOT give in and let him stay home---EVER!!! He will get a very bad message if you do!
Also, be sure that his teachers are aware of the problem-maybe they will have suggestions for you.
Good luck and God bless!
2006-09-08 07:03:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most little kids can be very hesitate about going to school, I know I was a handful!
You just have to be strict, he will get used to it. One thing you DON'T want to do is let him get away with his stubborn and admant behaviour or he will continue to use it to get his way. Just tell him he will make new friends and that he will like it. Even if he doesn't show that he believes you he will take it into account in the back of his head.
2006-09-08 06:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 22:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm certainly no psychologist, but I doubt that 5 year olds can be reasoned with or persuaded to do things they don't particularly want to do. Nor is it uncommon for a youngster to baulk at going to school. But, sometimes it's necessary for a parent to simply say that this is the way it is, and drop him off and walk away. He'll adapt.
2006-09-08 06:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Rather than saying you "HAVE" to go to school... point out the positive aspects, and tell him it's a privilege to be able to go to school, as he's now a big boy.
That's one of the common mistakes a lot of parents make is by telling kids that they HAVE to do something. Why not turn it into fun?
2006-09-08 06:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by ♫☼♥ ≈ Debbi ≈ ♥☼♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he wants to be when he grows up and then proceed from there to tell him that in order to do that he has to go to school and learn. Some kids are just so attached to parents and not willing to let go. My daughter was also like that. She's in 1st grade this year and loves it. Good luck!
2006-09-08 06:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by gemm77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about firing all of the currant teachers and decision makers currantly in the education system, and get cool people to teach stuff that might actually be USEFUL to someone who wanted to do something WORTHWILE?
Our currant education system just forces Personal Subjection to Factorial Learning (PSFL) which, honestly, SUCKS ***.
Idiots should quit making idiotic laws that don't help anyone!
No offence intended, I am just fed up with how so many people don't really care if their kids learn what they want to learn, so they can do what they really want to do when they grow up.
2006-09-08 06:39:49 · answer #8 · answered by Datura 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who's the parent? you are. start acting like it.
spank his behind and send him off to school. tell him if he refuses to go to school or if he acts up in school, that you will spank him. ask the teacher to call you whenever he behaves in this manner. then go up to the school, whip him, and then send him back to the classroom. (my mom's an elementary school principal, and she let parents do this when they didn't want the teacher to spank- so the school should have no problem with it.)
you have to be firm and stand your ground. don't let your son give you or any other adult an attitude and get away with it.
this is not cruelty. this is behavior modification. when he is older (age 9 and up), then you can switch from spanking to revoking privileges when he acts up.
2006-09-08 06:41:48 · answer #9 · answered by miss advice 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you can go with him for a few days to show him how much fun it is and let him know that everybody goes to school when they become big kids
2006-09-08 06:37:43 · answer #10 · answered by Muy Buena 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋