How many of you have gotten with someone who was married and they left their spouse to be with you or vice versa. I want to hear your stories of whether it worked out or not.
2006-09-08 06:33:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, for about 3 years, I really cared for him, he promised me he would leave his wife. Instead I got left with the most smartest and handsome son in the whole wide world. After I stopped sleeping with him he really didnt want anything to do with both of us, so I told his wife and took him to court for child support. Please be careful things got really out of hand when I broke things off with him... He got violent and so did his wife, Dont get me wrong I told her I was very sorry, but I Love my son and I wouldnt change things for the world, but that I was very sorry. Again Please be careful, women and men will kill over Love, Love can make you do things you wouldnt even think about doing without Him. Good Luck, and I want you to know your better than that, he just wants a new TACO to try for a while, dont kid yourself it wont go anywhere.
2006-09-08 06:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms thing why would you want to be second best in a relationship. You betrayed his wife and broke up a family. Usually the person that leave thier spouse for another usually turns around and does the same thing again. I would feel horrible knowing I broke up a family home. There are so many men out in this world why go for a married one? Find a man who is just yours do not go for a married men with children.
2006-09-08 13:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you go after a married person anyway? There are enough single guys out there so you don't have to be a contributor to some poor wife and mother's miserable living situation. If women stop being a**holes to each other men would be more likely to straighten up and be more willing to provide the love and support their families need. My ex had an affair with some woman and married a completely different woman 6 months after we divorced.
2006-09-08 13:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by connie_mspt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never even would think of such a thing! If a person is married that is a sacred commitment he or she has made before God. Anyone who has "gotten" with a married person is accountable before our Creator. If a person does team up with a married person who leaves his or her spouse to be in a relationship with another, you can best believe that they will never have trust knowing that the married person cheated on their previous spouse. It will just be a matter of time before that person cheats on you! What comes around goes around. You must reap what you sow! We not only pay a price before God, but we pay a high price in the here and now for our lack of morality!
2006-09-08 13:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Marie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This really happened to me. My ex filed for divorce from me to show her married lover that she really loved him. What she found out regrettably later was that she was nothing more than a piece of a** to him. When his wife found out, she divorced him as well and you would think the two would get together but that didn't happen. I think that only in an adulterous relationship where both partners decide to end their marriages to be together could there be a chance of making it work out. On the other hand, each one must wonder themselves that if the person they are with now, may not do it again to them.
2006-09-08 13:49:35 · answer #5 · answered by ray ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not want a married person to leave their spouse for me-I have had it happen to me!! Now if he was divorced then that would be different--I FELL IN LOVE with one who said he was married-then I married and got divorced again-I still think about him I heard from him after a couple of years(I was married then)--so I never got in touch with him--been over 15 years!!!!
2006-09-08 13:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well I thought I had found the perfect man, he was a gentleman, we had just about everything in common and everyone liked him. Then He went for a visit to his native country and came back two months later. We started datign soon after, and I thought I had found my future husband. Months into our relationship he confessed he had gotten married during his trip, but not because he loved her and it was just a convenience type of thing.(he confessed cause his parents threatned if he didnt, they would tell me). I was sooo in love with him, i believed every word. Our relationship turned ugly. his mother would cuss me out and then later on i found out why. i found out he married his high school sweetheart and she also had no idea he was cheating. to make a long story short, it was one of my biggest mistake ever. I did have a son by him, and he's d love of my life. but i wish i had listened to my gut feeling and stopped my relationship w/ his dad early on. He misdlead me. and guess what? he cheated on me numerous times and lied. if he cheated on his wife, why did i expect? He was also verbally abusive and it got to the point where i feared for my lfe. i have learned so much from this experience and married man are BAD news. DONT DO IT! listen to your gut feeling or your close friends and family cause they are d ones that care for u.
2006-09-08 13:46:25 · answer #7 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well....
We dated 15 years earlier - then broke up. Both of us went our seperate ways.
But, he saw me again and called - wanting to apologize for his actions back when we were dating.
I said "whatever, we were both young"...conversation went on - he said he was married - I stated that we should not be talking under any circumstances - due to me not being a home wrecker and that was the end of the conversation.
2 months later - he called again - I refused to pick up - he left a message stating that he left her - he was living in another house and he wanted to meet and talk.
We have been together ever since that call - it has been 11 years and 2 children later!
He is my soul mate and it was ment to be......I always thought about him and I never got married or had kids......
2006-09-08 13:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by WhatNext 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they rarely leave honey,,, they make you promises, but in the end, the only way they usually leave is when the wife finds out and kicks them out, many men know how expensive a divorce is when you get caught cheating, so thats why they try to stay. if they got kids, forget about it....and if you are gonna screw around with a married man, remember , it could be you being screwed around on next,
2006-09-08 13:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was involved with someone outside my marriage. it was fun at first. then when my marriage ended, my lover blame himself for my breakup and i guess in a way, it was 5 % his fault, but anyways, my lover also desert me, so i ended up with nothing.
also bieng a lover to a married person, most of the time, it is also just a sexual thing. not think they will leave their married partner over you and if they do, how can u be sure they wont do the same thing to you later on in life.
2006-09-08 13:38:20 · answer #10 · answered by lasalle_1986 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋