Did they try to fix whatever they did to you? Did you forgive 'em? Are you still friends?
2006-09-08 06:24:31 · 20 answers · asked by rayhanna 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes I have been betrayed by a friend, they /we did fix the problem and I forgave them but no the friendship did not last. There was no trust .
2006-09-08 06:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by JennieJen01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. A friend of 14 years betrayed me and my family. She was supposed to be my family but chose to end the relationship in a harsh and hateful way. Can I forgive? Yes. Can I forget? Never. It has been too recent to fortell the future, but right now, as she wished, she is dead to us. My son, her "grandson" will suffer the most. It's just sad.
A boyfriend, the first after my divorce betrayed me. 6 months into the relationship, I found out he was married. Done. Did not have another intimate relationship for 7 years. I finally did foret and forgive that one. Not friends though. Never want to see him again! EVER. More betrayals..but only family are forgiven and kept in touch!
2006-09-08 14:39:49 · answer #2 · answered by Holly T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes just last weekend i found out that this frnd has been lying to me bout one thing for almost 2 yrs now....and i didnt care much about it or force her to tell me bout her life. So she cud have done away with telling me straight , but she chose to lie....i felt badly betrayed...i mean, if u dont want to discuss something even with ur close frnd its ok u can always let them knw.... Well anyways im still gonna be her frnd....she will learn her lesson in life..... and i never forgive n forget
2006-09-08 13:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i have been very betrayed by a friend. and no, she never wanted to fix what she did to me...instead she told me she disgarded me. and as far as forgiving her, i do then she continues to mess with me life (my bf now husband)! No way will we ever be friends again. That still hurts cuz she is very vendictive towards me and I have not even in her life anymore so I dont know what her deal is!
2006-09-08 13:29:46 · answer #4 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i've been and we r still friend, it best to have them near so u can watch their every moves and to make sure they never betray u again.
2006-09-08 13:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by symarcia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. I did forgive her and we are still friends. I haven't forgotten the betrayal, but I choose not to dwell on it and do not let it affect our relationship now.
2006-09-09 19:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been betrayed by 3 friends- that I considered my best friends- they were in a row- however my true best friend- whom we grew up together- her and I have gotten past everything- we just had childish issues that we needed to get out of the way
2006-09-08 13:27:49 · answer #7 · answered by shannon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was friends with this woman for over 17 years and because i recently got involved with a new guy she got really mean and ended our friendship. keep in mind that i went to see her out of state where she lives and met him the second night i was there.
jealousy took over and she couldn't handle it. She lives with her dad and has never been married and has mental problems.
2006-09-08 13:29:17 · answer #8 · answered by cutie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hell naw i would never betray any of my friends cause friendship last forever and to me it is one of the most important things in my life after family and god
i would betray a boy friend or husband but NEVER a friend
Im loyal all the ways !!!1
2006-09-08 13:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah there was a guy who became a really good friend of mine until he got with my best friend and dropped me. I realised that he had just used me so I haven't forgiven him, because it also means i spend less time with my best friend. He tried to fix it but I couldn't trust him again.
2006-09-08 16:46:59 · answer #10 · answered by lost_boy25 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋