does any one now how to find a lost love after 18 year's apart?

Question

i'm in brighton mi looking for a lost love i dated her in high school then left for the army an lost her now i'm home looking for her again

Answer 1

if it was love you would've have "lost" it

Answer 2

I have tried to find people by posting messages on yahoo message boards/personals and have not had very good luck. Look for yahoo members, if you know the state that the person is looking for lives in ,you can look at the member names and send them an e-mail or IM if permitted to see they are related or know the person. I have done this and most people do not seem to mind. If you know the persons date of birth you can check social security online to see if the person is still alive ( and i hope so)
Geneolgy or ancestory.com could also be another option. If there are family members still in the town where she grew up, simply ask them the worst they can do is refuse to tell you. Also if your class has had a reunion, she may have been contacted thru them, and did not come, but someone may have an address.

Answer 3

Get her to marriage counseling, she doesnt comprehend that sex is a significant component of the bond between a pair. regrettably it truly is real that the a lot less sex women folk have, the a lot less they prefer it. keep on as you're and also you're gazing a sexless marriage. Your spouse is below pressure due for your family individuals project, although "curious" childrens are not any excuse, thats why mattress room doorways have locks. Is there yet another friend or buddy or a care centre that could take your mom in regulation at cases to furnish you both a spoil?

Answer 4

She has move on with her life and i think u should too. After 18yrs what is there to pick up on... she has her family and u should go get your own going just about now...Maybe 1 day u can look her up as a friend but to continue as a lover that not a good idea...your days in the army, could u not write her some letters.

Answer 5

I found my first girlfriend after losing contact with her for 25 years on Classmates.com! We are both happily married, but it was still great fun to get caught up. If you find her, probably best not to get your hopes up if you are looking for love. People change A LOT over time and after decades of life experience. Approach it as getting to know an old friend and it should be a good experience. Good luck!

Answer 6

I have found someone very close to me just recently. But it may cost you some money to run a search. The person I was looking for I haven't seen for 20 years. The link below is what I used. Good luck.

Answer 7

Don't. Hold onto your pleasant memories but other than that, let it go. You've changed in 18 years and so has she. You don't know her situation (married, family) and looking her up now could cause her all kinds of complications. There is no going back - only move forward and enjoy your memories of the past.

Answer 8

Tell me about it !!

But then - get real - if there was true love, she wouldv'e tried contacting you or at least tried to find out where / how u were. She has the same resources as you to to try, but she didn't. So move on.

Answer 9

Classmates.com, private investigator, research internet, try contacting your old school. Does she not go to high school reunions?

Answer 10

You can find your lost love,but if you have a new love stop.

Answer 11

Have your sister (if you have one) wait at Walmart for her, and if that does not work, have her call the lady and tell her that you are looking of her, OH, and do remember to promise your sister or whoever you get to do it lunch... ;)