My boyfriend and his roommate found another roommate and this time it's a girl, 20 years old and ever since she moved in my boyfriend is not giving me as much attention anymore. I am 27 years old and I feel he may have an interest on her. How can I compete with someone who's young like that?
2006-09-08 06:08:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
At your age you should know if you HAVE to compete there is no use in competing. Find a new man.
2006-09-08 06:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by Nunya 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't compete. You shouldn't have to. He should love you just because of who you are. Watch closely to see what happens and guard your heart. It is better to find out if he will cheat now while there is no long-term commitment! It would definitely worry me if my boyfriend had a girl roommate, though.
2006-09-08 13:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you consider her to be that much younger than you, I strongly suggest you get a dose of security..sold at Von's, look in the Hygene aisle. On the serious side, all the worry in the world will not stop whatever is going to happen. He is either yours or he isn't. IF you do not like what is going on, remove yourself from the situation and move on....to worry about something like this is a terrible waste of energy..for there will always be others about both you and him. WE just cannot spend our lives worrying about losing someone else. If they can get lost that easily, they were never really found, were they?
2006-09-08 13:13:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why compete?
If it's you he wants to be with, he will. If it's someone else, he will.
If he's willing to move on to another woman, why would you want him anyway?
Have some confidence in yourself and your relationship.
2006-09-08 14:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by wrdsmth495 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's 20 ...duhhh !!! C'mon u know Men ..he needs a girl of his age or maybe she hotter than u !! if he doesn't want u just leave him u deserve a better person !
2006-09-08 13:13:14 · answer #5 · answered by dodi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..best to find out whats up....talk to him about it..why did he let someone that young more in....can she pay her share..lot to ask
2006-09-08 13:12:52 · answer #6 · answered by babo1dm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother with him at all .and wait for him to screw up and you go on to bigger and better things.
2006-09-08 13:11:19 · answer #7 · answered by pirateron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it, if you are serious in your relationship
2006-09-08 13:12:51 · answer #8 · answered by xavier_del_rio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still young but still if he does ask him if he say he don't forget about it
2006-09-08 13:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by Linda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋