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My (we'll just say for confusions sake; boyfriend) boyfriend still thinks I'm sexy, I'm 7 months pregnant and I'm finally beginning to show, but he hasn't seen me since I was 4 months pregnant, I'm worried that he won't find me sexy anymore if he sees what I look like. Is it a normal fear?

(What else you should know: 1) no he is not the father of my child, and 2.) he's in the military currently deployed))

2006-09-08 06:07:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

9 answers

My husband thinks I am cutest when I am 6+ months pregnant. I think that I look cute when I have a cute round tummy! I feel cute and he assures me that I am.

If you think you are cute, than it will make you glow, and he will find you to be cute too.

And it's a plus that he accepted the child already since it is not even his, most guys are not willing to take on those sorts of challenges. So you are very lucky!

Don't worry too much, if he loves you and found you to be sexy before, he will think you are sexy no matter what, and if he does not, than I am sorry!

And if the real dad of the baby comes into the picture, with child support and maybe he'll want to see his child, than you have to be sure that your boyfriend now is aware that he is the one that you love, not the baby's daddy, although I am not sure of the circumstances surrounding that issue.

Good luck to you, your baby, and your man!

2006-09-08 06:33:03 · answer #1 · answered by fatiima 5 · 1 0

What's more important is do you still feel sexy? I'm 8 months pregnant and I LOVE my curvy body and big round tummy. I think it's so cute! My boyfriend does too, probably in part because I still feel good about myself and am not always trying to cover it up. I like to show it off. If your boyfriend found you sexy at 4 months, he's probably going to love it even more at 7 months. The insecurity you're feeling might just be hormonal but yes, it's completely normal to worry about things like that. I wouldn't waste your time though. I bet he's going to love the way you look but what's more important is you need to love the way you look!

2006-09-08 13:19:30 · answer #2 · answered by sks42683 2 · 1 0

Absolutely normal. However, if he is with you and not the baby's daddy, he may be more mature than you think and willing to accept you no matter what you look like. Most guys I know, think pregnant women are absolutely sexy no matter how big they are. They understand that it is a wonderful thing we do to carry a baby and bring it in to the world. Don't worry, you'll be fine.

2006-09-08 13:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by nmtgirl 5 · 1 0

Yes, it's a very normal fear. Most women worry about their looks. Depends on your man, many men find a pregnant women extra sexy.

2006-09-08 13:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by mom_of_ndm 5 · 1 0

if he is okay with the fact that this is not his child and he knews that going into the relationship I think things will be fine.

it's a totally normal fear, you are not used to being in this position with a new man because your body has changed a lot. don't worry, it will get back to normal in a year of so.

just make sure he is totally okay about the baby not being his and going forward as a family....he has been away in a very different situation....make sure his head is alright and if he really loves you and the baby I think things will work out fine, especially if he gets to have a child of his own with you in a couple years.

Good Luck:-)

2006-09-08 13:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by rooster2381 5 · 0 1

I agree with the other girl, pregnant women don't look bad! If he's your boyfriend, then he must accept you for who you are and of corse your soon to be born child. If he can't accept the fact that your body has changed because of the baby, then maybe he's not the right guy for you! Good luck ;)

2006-09-08 13:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 1 0

a lot of men find pregnant women sexy. I wouldn't worry about it. If he liked you before then chances are he still will.

Good luck.

2006-09-08 13:16:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 4 · 1 0

I think that pregnant people look good. If he has a problem with this then he has real issues. What matters is that you are caring his child.

Alot of women look cute pregnant. Don't worry to much about it.

2006-09-08 13:10:40 · answer #8 · answered by Jamie A 3 · 1 0

yes its normal. i have the same fear that when i get pregnant my husband wont think i look good anymore :) he says he loves me and i will look beautiful . i think this goes for most men. if they love you, it will probably only make you look even more sexy to them! no worries doll!

2006-09-08 13:15:16 · answer #9 · answered by tulips♥77 5 · 1 0

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