I have a male friend who emails me at least 25 times a day then text messages me all evening and all weekend. He constantly asks for silly advice on sill things for example "What shirt should I wear to impress this girl?". I do not talk to my best friend this much I have been trying to get the point across that this is intrusive and bothers me, yet he just keeps pushing and always contacting me. I am starting to worry that it could turn into a very bad situation any opinons/advice would be apprciated.
PS I have no intrest in this guy in any way shape or form we have some mutual friends but otherwise that is where the relationship ends on my part anyways.
2006-09-08 06:03:22 · 4 answers · asked by Varacha 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Whenever your friend contacts you via email and texting, don't respond. If you continue to respond, you're encouraging him to keep doing so. You don't have to explain yourself to him once he finds out that you're not responding to his text messages. Hopefully, he'll realize that he should stop sending text messages and emailing you all the time. If he doesn't stop and it turns into harrassment, contact law enforcement.
2006-09-08 07:01:07 · answer #1 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont respond to the emails and the messages. If you are responding then he thinks he is welcomed. If after a period of time you are comfortable with the volume does not stop. Be direct. "Don't contact me so much!". You don't need to give a reason why. Just don't want it. If it doesn't stop from there and you feel it's harrassing, then contact the police to file a report.
2006-09-08 06:14:25 · answer #2 · answered by limgrn_maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe u need to tell him this, if u keep responding to his text messages etc that is encouraging the situation
2006-09-08 06:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol sounds something like what I'm goin through.. by the guy thats my friend always says to me.about my boyfriend.. if he hasn't cheated on you by now then he will.. if you wanna talk get a hold of me.. sounds like we have the same friend..lol
2006-09-08 06:07:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋