What do you think of that?
[No dirty comments please]
2006-09-08 06:00:21 · 67 answers · asked by rayhanna 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
And she claims to love the guy and that he's her "soulmate"? wtf?
2006-09-08 06:11:02 · update #1
Way too young...she's still a child herself
2006-09-08 07:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why did you stop at 13? Where do YOU draw the line. I think it's disgraceful for a 23 year old to have sex with guys if they are not married.
Maybe that is why our youth are not celibate. They don't have role models. How can you condone an adult male or female with no job, being sexually active and then condemn a teenager for doing the same thing.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not in favor of anyone having sex before marriage.
2006-09-08 08:45:48 · answer #2 · answered by Wise ol' owl 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Because you are not old enough to make the best rational decision when it comes to sex. Wait before you have sex. Men will loose respect for you. And you need all of your dignity and respect as a young woman and as an older woman. Believe me, you are worth waiting for. A man will not tell you that because they are only trying to get in your pants. That is a treasure you keep to yourself until you are married. GOD will bless you if you wait. And don't believe the hype about that doesn't apply to us these day's. That is a bunch of crap. Wait for yours. Get yur career together first. Go to college. It is difficult to do those things as a young mother. And you don't want any diesease either. AIDS is very rampid out here.
2006-09-08 08:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by Wednesday 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that it disgraceful for a guy to wanting to have sex with a 13 yr old she is still a child and has a lot of things to learn about love i know a girl who stated haveing sex at that age and buy 14 she was pregnant and now she has 2 more kids and a husband that treats her like dirt and she is noly 20 yrs old shes been married since she was 14 an her husband blames her for getting pregnant. so please be carefull its your life you make it what it is and will be.
2006-09-08 09:38:22 · answer #4 · answered by mcdanieljoanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very wrong, My daughter is 13 and let me tell you if I ever found out she was having sex she would never be allowed to leave my house again let alone talk to guys.Kids now a days dont understand what kind of stuff is out there that can actually kill you. ask you friend if maybe getting aid is worth having sex at such a young age,she should respect herself and her body more.Lots of kids think if they are having sex that they are cool or it makes them popular but how cool and popular are they going to be when they have to tell some one that have gotten an std or even hiv not to cool then.13 year olds should enjoy life not try and ruch into life and be adults which they are not.
2006-09-08 07:59:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes. im 13 and i dont plan to have sex until i get married. i think it is a disgrace even if she thinks hes her soulmate. if she gets pregnant then that would really suk for her parents, the father, and her self if it gets out and everyone finds out. 13 year old girls dont kno everything even if they think they do. condoms dont always work. it could brake and there is a chane she will be pregnant. if this is your problem, dont just let it happen. it will be your problem too.
2006-09-08 08:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I feel that it has to be the upbringing of the child. If you were more open with the dangers of sex and drugs, your child may never do it. Not saying this is what happened in this case, but if it were me, I'd be ashamed.
I think that it is a bit disgraceful, especially if it is allowed by the parent. You should always keep tight controls on these sorts of thing.
Good Luck!
2006-09-08 06:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by fatiima 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
at 13 what can u possibly know about soulmates??? i still dont know what the hell that means exactly and im NOT 13. and for her to be having sex is not doing her any good. thats just puppy love taht might last for awhile but that happens to everyone so i dont think she knows wht shes doing.
2006-09-08 08:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by L@ GUEREJ@ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not so much disgraceful but just WRONG. At 13, they don't know what true romantic love is, nor "soulmates".
2006-09-08 06:28:20 · answer #9 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! That's not good. Why does she think it's okay to have sex? When I was 13, I didn't even know how to have sex! Did somebody tell her it was okay as long as she uses protection? You need to tell her that she needs to respect herself and her body. Good girls do not do those kinds of things. If she is having sex now, then what will she be doing at 16? Think about it...
2006-09-08 06:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by geskuh 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes! It's disgusting. I don't care if it IS her "soul mate". At 13, her body isn't even developed fully yet and by having sex now, she's going to have damage later in life because of it.
2006-09-08 10:04:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋