To the guys - - What specific actions or characteristics tell you that a woman has confidence in herself?

Question

And what defines "sexy" to you? Is it looks only or her self confidence and mannerisms?

Answer 1

Lots of things.

Like when she knows how to meet your gaze evenly and without any trace of hesitation or reluctance; long enough to establish her own territory and presence - and maybe even issue a challenge - but never long enough to turn it in to an act of aggression. And when, instead of trying to cover her boobs by folding her arms she might tuck her hands in to the back pockets of her jeans. That just says she knows she's all woman and she'll be damned if she's gonna make apologies about it, or try to conceal the fact.

And sexy goes wayyyyyyyyyy beyond surface looks.

Sincerely.

If we can live with describing some women as not being "beautiful in any conventional sense", they can be just impossibly attractive by virtue of how they move and stuff.

They just kinda snarl their womanhood in a way that says they think they're more than woman enough for a lightweight like you without saying a single word :o)

And THAT is insanely attractive.

So yes.

We shouldn't ever confuse beautiful/ugly with desirable/undesirable. And mannerisms and self-confidence are (in my view, at least) every bit as important as looks.

Answer 2

Usually the way they walk and carry themselves. If they make eye contact. A lot like telling if a guy has confidence. Sexy to me is not looks only. It's a lot about personality. I don't need a hot girl in front of me to see someone sexy. Sexy to me is someone who can have fun with the guys, be herself, laugh, carry on an intelligent conversation, and isn't whiny or high maintenance.

Answer 3

That's 2 questions. lol
to answer "sexy", Its not all about appearance.How a woman handles herself in a certain situation has a lot more to do with "sexy" I think.A healthy appearance , and a good attitude toward her body are also important.
All of the above gives a woman sex appeal. (is that 1 word , or 2 ? )

Answer 4

convinced we women persons can tell if a guy is non confident basically with the help of how he walks,seems and garments. A confident guy will walk in an casual walk gown in gentle casual clothing and seem comfortable. He might want to also seem at people right now contained in the face and would not seem down even as speaking or answering someone. A non confident guy will seem down even as conversing to someone and gown in darkish clothing to blend in additional desirable. also a non confident human being will seem annoying even as strolling and the shoulders are probaly hunched at circumstances.

Answer 5

Maybe it's more what she doesn't do. She doesn't ask for my approval or approbation to feel good about herself or to make all but the biggest decisions, she doesn't feel bad about herself if another person looks at her the wrong way or is mildly critical of her or something she said, she doesn't need the validation of others to feel good about herself. All the above plus a little flirtiness and willingness to accept appropriate intimacy along with acceptable looks is sexy.

Answer 6

The way she walks and dresses. More liberal and openly dressed because they aren't so concious about there looks or body. A sexy woman is her sparkling eyes and beautiful smile. And the way she looks at you when she is hungry for "you know what".

Answer 7

When she gets horny and she just attacks me and says " I want you in me" , now that's a woman who knows what she wants and how to get it. P.S. The fact that I'm a total man-whore has nothing to do with it.