i asked about porn and ect...(go look) and alot of you said that i should watch it with him and listen to why he wants to watch it..he's already told me that he isnt attracted to me because im not "small" anymore and that he imagines hiself with other woman. i dont want to end things but i dont know what to do! he dosent understand that my hormones just arnt in balance and im turned off by the fact that hes turned off by me!!!!!! he told me he thinks im fat and dont look right pregnant! i only have a lil belly....u can hardly tell but he says that when im naked he cant help but stare at the belly...give me youre opinion..go to www.myspace.com/urbndrk
there is a pic of my belly you tell me if you think im to fat and if you would be turned off by it! HONEST OPIONS ONLY
2006-09-08 05:38:03 · 18 answers · asked by danielle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are attractive and young. You need to ask yourself if you want to be in this relationship for 40 year? Is anything going to change, or get better? I know that is can all be scary but those questions need to be answered. My wife is not the same little 125 pounds she was when we were married 12 years ago, but I still love here and would never say or do anything to make her feel bad about herself. Porn, is a whole diff rent issue. If you don't want to watch it then don't watch it. It will not make you happier or save your relationship. If you do want to watch it, then that is OK too. Either way be yourself and make your self happy.
2006-09-08 05:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by BeenThere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok sweetie I think you already know in your heart what the answer is. Your 18 and in love with a man who undoubtfully is trying to build a wedge between you and him. Maybe he is scared of being a father again at such a young age, and is lashing out at you. NO matter how big you are you should be beautiful to him because you are carrying his child. If right now porn turns him on because he cant get over the image then allow him this. Dont feel insecure about your body this only makes you look less attractive to him, and you will feel less attractive to yourself. Express to him you are a beautiful woman who loves her man, and understands his sexual desires. But regardless of what you think I know I am beautiful but if you want to get it on with a porn playing lets go baby Im sure you could learn a few things. Show him you are the proud beautiful secure woman he married and he wont be able to take his eyes off of you.
2006-09-08 05:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by fryedaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly tell him if he doesn't like the stomach he should quit getting your pregnant then, It is a natural response to gain weight and mass especially in the stomach area during pregnancy. Didn't he know that before he got you pregnant the 2nd time. He should be worshipping you for carrying his children. My husband thought my pregnant stomach was beautiful because he knew his baby was inside growing healthy. Even when it took my some time to lose the pregnancy weight he still would kiss my belly and tell me the stretch marks were a beautiful reminder of the sacrifice I made to bring him his children. Tell him you imagine yourself with a loving and caring man who would be supportive of you during this very emotional time.
2006-09-08 05:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has the problem. Most men love to see their wife's pregnant. The first time he said that he was not attracted to me I would have packed up and moved back to Moms. I'm not saying that's the right thing to do, but that's what I would do. You are worth way better than that. What a jerk. Good luck, sweetie you're going to need it.
2006-09-08 05:52:45 · answer #4 · answered by irish_yankee51 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 20:43:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nice page he's a burn out you should of told us that lol only kidding I thought you looked great are you sure there isn't more to it then just the porn it looked like you date young I really don't know what to say have you ever imagined your self with a guy well good luck and you really did look great
2006-09-08 05:49:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie this guy is a JERK!!! ur stomach is not big at all!!! and further more your pregnant with his kids i mean hello it took his sperm to make this kid....how DARE he say your fat and he imagines himself with other woman!!! My advice leave him alone raise your kids on your own and get your child support from him and thats it. Being pregnant is hard enough on your hormones and emotions let alone a guy who "loves" you talking about you in this way...
2006-09-08 05:49:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like he gets turned on watching your belly.
2006-09-08 05:42:24 · answer #8 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I checked it out and it looks normal your boyfriend is either an idiot or he is feeling the pressure of having children so he is looking for any excuse to get into an argument I don't know what to tell you but don't feel bad about yourself you are much better looking then him.
2006-09-08 05:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by G-man 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him and make him pay for child support and alimony. he won't have enough money left over to go see another woman. You are gorgeous to me.
2006-09-08 05:51:30 · answer #10 · answered by greg76991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋