2006-09-08 05:32:25 · 11 answers · asked by Uday H 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
maybe because you are trying to hard and your subconscious keeps on telling you to fail. lay off such pessimist thought and DO... remember, every victory is sweeter when it is hard earned...
2006-09-08 05:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by VeRDuGo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see yourself as being a failure, therefore in reality you become a failure.
The power of the sub conscious mind at work. The sub conscious mind cannot tell the difference between a real event or an imagined event. Therefore, when you constantly see yourself as being a loser and a failure, the sub conscious takes over and it becomes a reality.
This is many times the result of parental statements such as you will never be anything but a failure, and the mind is like a computer, "Garbage in, garbage out."
You can retrain your belief system and you will magically become a success at everything you do. There are a lot of good subliminal self help programs that retrain your mind without you being involved. If you were involved, you would only screw it up, that's why it is done subliminally.
Try writing about 100 times, the statement, "I am successful in each and everything I do". This is called brain writing. Do it enough, and you will start to believe it, and when you believe it, you will achieve it, and you will be a success in each and everything you do. Remember the saying:
"Ask, and believe, and you will achieve."
Darryl S.
2006-09-08 12:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by Stingray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Success through failure is also a path we choose sometimes; it just looks odd that’s all. Would you rather be succesful at something your heart does not want you to go into?
May be your failures are blessings in disguise, that you haven't recognised as yet, that is why gratitude for every event in our life is essential to see its gift. After all it has come from our higher self.
So there can be many reasons we don’t succeed at first, primary being we haven’t found what we are really good at which mean where our heart is into, as we can never fail at that, can we?
May be your dream career still awaits, and you will reach it after eliminating all extraneous career choices, which seem more charming or easy to you right now. That would be a job more in alignment with your life purpose.
What if you had succeeded at your first try and lost your path? You can think yourself as lucky that way, otherwise 10 years later you would have found yourself stuck in a dead end job and two home loans.
So ask your self, what career or life choices absolutely terrifies you as that would be the right choice for you, as life never gives us easy choices ever.
May be you will finally reach to the one thing that you love, by failing at all things you are not supposed to do in life, may be elimination is the way you find your final choice in life as in career.
Usually we all want to do grand or great things in life, but in truth we are meant to do special things as we are special creations of job, but for that we need courage, so have heart you will find success in life, as success really is in doing what you love, and not in bank balance or a job.
2006-09-08 13:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Abhishek Joshi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before starting any work make sure you do through planning taking all kind of known factors that affect the project and the factors that support. Have the confidence in you that you will succeed and try the level best to achieve the goal.
2006-09-08 14:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by Wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Failure is a basic step for success. All will fail in one item or other. But it is a good lession for success.
2006-09-09 11:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by narayanan a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are more obsessed with failures, which disheartens you to take appropriate steps to achieve success. Forget about past failures concentrate only on success and you will achieve it.
2006-09-09 02:55:10 · answer #6 · answered by nadkarni_chaitanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i am after a girl who does not is not interested in any affair or who does not like me or want me or considers me as not up to her expectation , even if I try to win her for a thousand births , i will not succeed .One should not bite more than what he cah chew and i must know my limits . I want to do a high jump over 20 feet , I shall not be able to do even I try it in one hundred of my rebirths . one must know himself and know his limits even in matters realtiong to inanimate things . if it a matter involving another individual , just forget it as it involves another mind and character. There is no certainity that any will succeed in even getting one's friendship or comapany. One must be awar eof one'e own level and limits to succeed in anything .It is that simple . It is not luck or chance .
when one tries in anything after knowing his limits , he will have lot of self-confidence in achieving what he wants and he succeeds in it either at first attempt or in susequent attempts.
2006-09-08 22:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by Infinity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first afall u have to know about
what is success,what is failure...
there is no perfect success in the world....
u r thinking about what u did .........is failure
but u think it as a positive way.....that is also one type of success
2006-09-12 04:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by rameshgavva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THIS IS ONLY CONFIDENCE TO DO THE THINGS BETTER. YOU MUST READ THE BOOK OF MR SHIV KHERA AND TRY TO IMPLEMENT HIS SUGGESTIONS. YOU WILL ALSO ACHIEVE THE THINGS IN FIRST ATTEMPT.
2006-09-09 08:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you believe that you are a failure, therefore you fail to prove your belief.
2006-09-08 12:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by kickinupfunf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋