why is it that you want to cheat with someone , and the only story you can say is she/he doesnt give me sex , or its just the same old thing; no variety , or she dont do the things she used to , or she is all ways tired ......or he dosent pay me any attention, or he/she did it , 2 wrongs dont make it right , but it make it damn sure make it even attitude ? then the cycle continues and we have another generation doing the same thing mommy and daddy did ......... i mean why do u even stayed married if you wanna cheat ,
why do people even get married if they are not going to be faithful
I dont understand..........people dont RESPECT THE VOWS OF MARRIAGE ........
2006-09-08
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➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have just gone thru a divorce because my wife...errrrr exwife cheated on me multiple times. I cannot give you answer as to why but I assume she used the reasons you gave above. So predictable.
2006-09-08 05:28:51
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answered by Rez 5
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People think that marriage is some kind of easy road. That and they don't stop to think about what it really means both in and out of bed. But there are people that do respect the vows of marriage and do marry for life. I think that people that cheat when there other has do it cause they forget how much they hurt or just want them to feel that pain. The the question is was there love there in the first place? I know that, cheating is one road that I will never go down cause of my child. I don't want them to think it is o.k. when it is not. My parents did cheat on each other but I broke that circle and hope my child keeps it broken.
2006-09-08 12:39:32
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answered by sscott12414 3
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I have to agree with you, people do not respect their marriage vows anymore. My husband and I have made a pack with one another, if we are not getting what we need from one another, we talk to each other, we are very specific and say exactly what we need and then we try our best to do it. If we were to ever feel the need to cheat, we have made a promise not to do it behind the others back, we are going to tell each other first. We are about to celebrate our tenth year, and I think our openness and honesty, and ability to say what we want and need is why we've made it this far..Far to many people think that marriage is a game that you can turn on and off when you want, but its not.
2006-09-08 12:33:28
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answered by ncvasarahlee 1
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I dont think people get married thinking they are going to be unfaithful. I agree that some dont respect the vows of marriage. I dont understand why people cheat, even on a gf or bf.
2006-09-08 12:28:57
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answered by Michelle : 5
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I don't
Haven't cheated or considered cheating in 26 years of marriage... neither has my husband. It's not so much the vows of marriage we respect, we respect each other.
If I ever got to a point where I wanted to cheat, I'd leave my husband first.
2006-09-08 12:30:58
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answered by Canadian_mom 4
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not everyone cheats nor wants to.. it all depends on Maturity, and the morals and values instilled in u by ur parents..
If u marry an immature person as far as their way of thinking then ur going to get what u married..
And to many people that vows are just something u took one day at a ceremony and dont look at them as a promise they made to uphold every day of their life..
Society has made it to easy for people that get a divorce acceptable, and now people get divorced when ever theres the slightest problems instead of working through them , they take the easy way out..
My parents are divorced, but my father taught me that marriage vows are important and that u stand by ur word..and through thick and thin (my mom left him because she thought the grass was greener on the other side, she later regretted leaving my dad when she found out it wasnt) ....
2006-09-08 12:37:56
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answered by brwneyedgrl 7
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It's low hanging fruit...easy to pick up, easy to get rid of. You get the thrill of "something on the side" without risking any emotional attachment. The phrase "hit it; quit it; and forget it" applies. Most men/women like the thrill of the hunt. People just don't take marriage as seriously as they used to. People are just more selfish now, I guess.
2006-09-08 12:36:29
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answered by WhyNotMe 6
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Sounds like you are hurting over something. If you want, email me at jennbrehob@yahoo.com.
I agree...if you never intend to keep your vows, your promises, then you shouldn't have made them in the first place. It makes you a liar and a cheater.
2006-09-08 12:28:24
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answered by Jennifer W 4
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Too many questions and too much rambling.
Just think long and hard about who you are going to marry and keep your vows. Good luck.
2006-09-08 12:28:56
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answered by DMBthatsme 5
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The number one reason for cheating is sex. There is no way around it. Ladies, if you want to keep your man, do whatever he wants in the sack. Otherwise, you take the chance that he goes elsewhere.
2006-09-08 12:34:37
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answered by Simply Lovely 6
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