My boyfriend and I have been together for about 4 months now but known eachother for about 4 years. He was my ex's friend but about a year ago things went down with that friendship and I became better friends with my boyfriend now then my ex was with him. but any way we moved in with eachother about 3 months ago we share everything together. I have wanted to say those words many times but im scared he dosnt feel the same way about me and I want him to express his feelings for me frist so i know they are true. Why hasnt he said it yet?
2006-09-08 05:23:33 · 19 answers · asked by Tanner and Leahs MaMa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Actually he moved in with me. I was looking for a room mate i couldnt afford the apt alone. He was living with his dad and really didnt want me living with someone i coudlnt trust
2006-09-08 05:30:17 · update #1
Im fearing if i ask him if he loves me or tell him ill only push him away. I dont want that. But theres so much in this relationship that is telling me he does love me or at least cares about me Alot(he dosnt tell me he cares about me unless i say it frist though) Like im from PA hes moving back home with me in April because he knows how important it is for me to be with my family.
2006-09-08 05:33:57 · update #2
Some guys have a hard time saying those three little words. You need to have a talk with him and ask him how he feels about you and what does he see in the future with the two of you. If he still clams up then I would say "I love you" and see his response. Is he showing you he loves you with his actions everyday? That is a good way of seeing how much he loves you. If he is not doing any of these things I suggest you move out and find someone who does.
2006-09-08 05:28:09 · answer #1 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is a little confused. He might also be thinking the same thing that you are thinking. Just wait. He will tell you he loves you when the time is right. Besides it is better to take things slow than to move really fast. Also, maybe he is still excepting the fact that yall are "together" now and not just friends. Everything takes a little time. Just be patience. He will tell you that he loves you. He is just waiting for the perfect time to tell you. And you can also try letting him know how you feel. Someone has to make the first move. Why can't it be you? GOOD LUCK!! I know that your sweetie will find a way to express his love even if he won't say it.
2006-09-08 05:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 04:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by creasong 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be thinking the same things you are. "what if she doesn't love me back?" "what if I say it and she doesn't?" honestly, what I would do to broach the subject would be to make him a nice romantic dinner, complete with wine and dessert, and while you are eating dessert, or even after, sit on the couch together cuddlingand tell him. If he asks where that came from or just laughs, then you will know he doesn't feel that way yet, but he may in the future. The only way you will know if he loves you is to tell him that you love him and/or ask him if he loves you.
2006-09-08 05:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Genny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not alot of guys feel that they express thier feelings through actions. You need to think about the things that he has done for you and with you and realize that this may be his way of showing you how he feels. Give it some time and on some wonderful day, when he is ready, he will tell you.
2006-09-08 05:34:14 · answer #5 · answered by staylor33823 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...so, you've been together for 4 months, living together for 3 months...I'm seeing the problem already! I LOVE YOU should have come before living together...now it's kind of like...your shacking up...the sex is good...but....are you sure this is a "real" relationship? Just pop out and ask him "Hey...how do you really feel about me?"....that's a good opener, and just let it kind of flow from there. If you can't even discuss how you feel about each other openly, your already having communication problems. Good luck.
2006-09-08 05:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you love him. See how he responds, but don't assume that just because he doesn't say it back, doesn't mean you don't have a future together. He may just not be ready for all of the implications of saying those words (together forever, marriage, etc.)
2006-09-08 05:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Big Larry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are not always good at saying I love you-in fact I bet that women say those words more often then men do we give our hearts away too easily just to get them broken and even crushed!!!!! Ask him if he has any deep feelings for you and find out what he says to you___GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-09-08 05:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either because he isn't feeling it OR because those words are very, very special to him and is waiting for the right time to say them. When he does tell you, though, you will know that he means it, he's not just one to say it because you want to hear it, and he really *does* love you. :)
That's something to look forward to, so don't rush it!!! ;)
2006-09-08 05:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Avid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone feels it is necessary to say the words. Actions still speak louder than words.
2006-09-08 05:26:42 · answer #10 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋