Would you perfer to marry your partner or live with them?
2006-09-08 05:02:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Live together first then marry.. I live with my husband for a year and half before I get marry to him... It's a good idea to live together at first because you get to see the real person once they are at home because they won't hid the little things when we are on a date ....... There are going to be pro and con.. Like for example My husband is very neat from appearance when I live with him he's dirty, and I found out some of our living ideas are different and we fix it there.. If you get marry first you learn all those pesty thing that annoy us after and it will be a huge agrument from there.. I don't know my opinion...
2006-09-08 05:31:11 · answer #1 · answered by funkysha916 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I live with my partner and Loving it. You dont need to jump into marriage to live together theres such a high divorce rate these days. If you live with the person first it gives you an idea of what marriage would be like and what is marriage just a bunch of legal papers saying you two belong to eachother and a few left hand rings. I am currently going through a divorce my husband wasnt what he was before we married. Marriage just isnt for everyone.
2006-09-08 12:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Tanner and Leahs MaMa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in marriage and do want to be married again. I am just so scared to do it again and to go through all that. What if it doesn't work? What if he does what the ex husband did? I won't be able to say get out..we will be married ? I am in a wonderful relationship and marriage has been mentioned but we are waiting until we feel it is the right thing for us. How long will we wait god only knows.
~ Good luck~
2006-09-08 16:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what you guys want. Society favors couples to marry each other. Yet there are people who never get married to one another and love each other just as much as the married couples. So, as I stated before it depends on what you think will work best for you. If you do have children in the future and are not married you may run into people telling you should get married for their sake. I think that you can be together and be a responsible and a loving parent. But for my personal preference, I would most likely choose to marry my partner.
2006-09-08 05:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Man are you asking on the wrong day. Just kidding. I have seen couples that have lived together for years, then got married and it was over in a short time. I also know couples that have a great relationship as long as they don't live together.
I am one that believes in marriage, but I also believe that you can have a healthy secure relationship without marriage. I am also one of those that is in a relationship that I believe we do better having separate places.
I gave up my place a few months ago after dating this guy for almost eight months. I felt it would help with his insecurities, it may have. But now at times I feel trapped an that he calls all the shots.
I guess I really didn't answer your question. Just vented about me. Thanks.
2006-09-08 05:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Balou 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Marriage
2006-09-08 05:06:15 · answer #6 · answered by EL Big Ed 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I prefer marriage. if you just live with someone, there is still that little extra room that they can use to go out and cheat if they so desire. I lived with a guy that did that. His reason was "we aren't married, why should you care what I do?" With Marriage, you also have the commitment that you can get from no where else.
2006-09-08 05:08:57 · answer #7 · answered by Genny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We live together but we are getting married
2006-09-08 05:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Raineybaby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
live together. without the "paper" there seems to be less expectations and less disappointments. u'll eventually hv 2 marry if u decide to hv kids. marriage is one of the biggest decision u hv to make in ur life....it's literally forever. it'll change u, maybe for the better sometimes for the worse if it dun work out.
2006-09-08 05:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by ikusburples 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would want to be married. IT makes things with the family and legal system easier. An example would be who makes medical decisions and being put on a spouses health care.
2006-09-08 05:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by Isis 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋