would you consider getting back together?
2006-09-08 04:49:35 · 38 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not if there was someone else in my life.
Of course, I only am with someone if I'm truly in love with her. So, there would be no room for anyone else, not even an old love who once held my heart.
2006-09-08 07:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Bender 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If I had the chance I would depending on the reason we split up. Pickinig up again on a past love is like a second chance to find out if you were mean to be. But if you don't you'll never know if you were. Sometimes it's not so good though to pick up again if the split was due to something negative between the two that may happen again due to habits you know cheating and jealousy.
2006-09-08 04:55:20 · answer #2 · answered by nena 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did and it was a total mess! We have to remind ourselves there is a reason we are no longer lovers.
I do not mean to offend anyone with my answer but it is in relationships and s*x is a large part of relationship.
I actually married my ex-husband twice. Part of the reason was the s*x was so incredible, part of the reason was I was young. And when you are young love is deaf, dumb, blind, and stupid. I do have to say he had a truly beautiful p*nis and he sure knew how to use it. But loyalty and respect are more important, than any orgasm.
All the heartache and abuse aside there were two truly spectacular things that came out of it all. My 15 year old son. And because of him and only because of him I would not change a thing. And I also now have great respect for myself and demand it of others.
I am remarried to a wonderful man and have a 5 year old daughter. And I still enjoy great monogamous sex, and believe it or not orgasms are better when there is mutual respect and TRUST!
2006-09-08 18:19:33 · answer #3 · answered by Cali Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes!...oops didn't mean to sound so excited. I dated a guy back when I was 19 (for a few months) then again for a few months when I was 29...we got back together 3 years ago and are now married. While I know this doesn't work for everyone, we finally got our timing right. You do have to exam why the relationship failed before, so you don't fall into the same traps as before and have the relationship fail again.
2006-09-08 04:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by silver 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets begin with no spin. More than likely I would not get back with an old love. Why? They are an old love because I left them(never happened)or they left me(too many times). So, I could not trust why they wanted to pick up a relationship. because if someone dumped me the 1st time around. I might feel as if the 2nd time I was just a rebound until something better came by again.
What if it were just circumstances? A college fling. You graduate, she did, transferred or what have you. Unless you were reconnecting in a rather short time. You are different people. Had different experiences. Unless you age willing to go into it seeing them as a whole new person, you could be setting yourself up for a BIG disappointment. Because you will be looking for them to be the person you met and knew way back when. And they maybe totally different, dashing the whole dream. So, like pizza, once its time has pass, it has. The toppings cold, the meat is getting greasy, and the dough too tough. You love it when it was fresh, but now time to let it go.
2006-09-10 19:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
I would get back together with one person. I still love him in a small way and would start over if the oppurtunity came up. Its been over a year and I have moved on and I believe he has really moved on. But I think if the circumstances went another way we would both had made different choices and we both would be back together.
2006-09-08 04:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. The memories of past love are just that memories. I don't think in very many cases you get a second go around. After all who stays the same after any length of time.
2006-09-11 06:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Plantoneonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends, if you feel that this the right person for you and that the reasons why you broke up in the first place are no longer valid, then sure. But again you have to make sure that you wont have the same problems again.
2006-09-08 05:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by andia2amat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you were the one being dumped at the time and there was an actual reason for that person leaving you, and only if this time that person is willing to do more than last time.. you should be able to notice the difference.
I would totally consider, only because this woman was the person that I totally fell in love with, she was going through divorce, has two gorgeous daughters and she had her hands full at the time, we decided to call it off. Actually I told her that first she should take care of herself and her two beautiful daughters and then if she thought it was the time, I would be waiting for her when she decided....
Sadly,.... Im still waiting.....
2006-09-08 04:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by CrazyOscar 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Been down that road, it was great for a while, but just like the past break up, it came back to haunt me again. It even hurts as much the second time around. My advice, don't do it, it just hurt to much.
2006-09-08 05:02:33 · answer #10 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I would, of course it depends on the circumstances that broke you up in the first place. Sometimes, though, things work out the second time around.
2006-09-08 05:57:11 · answer #11 · answered by Tammy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋