I have been living with this man for two years and it seems like the feelings have gone away. We were very close until there were some problems with his family (mother and sisters) and now all feelings seem to be gone. In the meantime, I have begun talking to a neighbor that I have liked for the past three years and he seems to listen to my problems and understand. We have now been seeing each other for the past month and he makes me feel so good about myself and my life. My boyfriend isn't much on affection and showing love but my new friend is and I don't know now if I should just let this pass over (the crush i seem to have on the neighbor) and try to fix my relationship with my boyfriend, or let him go and persue someone that makes me feel good and makes me laugh. Its a difficult decision when all you really want out of life is someone that will hold you and tell you how beautiful and special your are and worrying about hurting someone elses feelings because the love has gone.
2006-09-08 04:44:46 · 6 answers · asked by staylor33823 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You obviously still somewhat care for your boyfriend. BUT, you need to make yourself happy before you can make someone else happy. YOU come first in your life. Talk to your bf and ask him what he feels and if he notices any changes in the relationship. If you really loved him you would not be asking this question. The guy next door seems to make you happy and cares about your feelings. Your young, you should do what your heart tells you! Good Luck
2006-09-08 05:02:30 · answer #1 · answered by kayjay52204 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a country song that talks about cheating on someone. The words go, "Then what? What ya gonna do when the new wears off and the old shines through. When it ain't really love and it ain't really lust, you ain't anybody anybody's gonna trust."
If you are truly unhappy with your boyfriend I suggest you break up with him before persuing this relationship with this other guy. Don't break up with him just because of this other guy. That would be a real mistake. Good luck you girl. You are gonna need it.
2006-09-08 04:53:10 · answer #2 · answered by dollfacedbaby1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell are you doing? you reside with a guy yet met yet another and wondering about leaving? have you ever banged him yet? which will be noted as dishonest! in case you go away your significant different do you quite imagine this large guy will opt to flow a shown cheater in on an enduring foundation. existence is continuously straightforward for a guy who can bang a partnered lady. each and each and every of the sex and not one of the crap that the guy at homestead has to administration. Why do not you ask your significant different what he thinks you ought to do?
2016-11-06 21:53:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the love is truly gone, do not worry about it. Be honest with your current and tell him the feelings are gone and so are you. Life is to short to be in a dead relationship, live life to the fullest and be happy ;-)
2006-09-08 05:05:30 · answer #4 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you accept the fact if a man leaves with one gal and loves the other gal???
2006-09-08 04:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make a choice or loose
2006-09-08 04:50:32 · answer #6 · answered by Max 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋