my boy friend is forcing me to get married with him in the court. is it going to be right to marry him without making my parents concern about the matter. as i m going abroad for 6months so he is telling me to dat. please help me........................
2006-09-08 04:38:25 · 9 answers · asked by lipsa m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Absolutely not! If he is going to 'force' you to do this, he will force you to do other things in the future, that you will probably enjoy even less than being 'forced' to marry him! Tell your parents immediately. It doesn't matter what you are doing for 6 months. He may tell you this is love, but this is CONTROL! If he's an abusive stalker freak, call the cops, get a restraining order. My advice? RUNRUNRUN!!!
Don't stop, don't look back, and NO second chances!
Just for fun sometime, rent the dvd Desperate Housewives. Pay spacial attention to George, that sweet guy who always manages to get his way. Do you want someone like that in your life?
2006-09-08 09:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by ANGELa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your b/f is forcing you to do any thing explisly getting married....that should make you think....you cant be to happy in that case you do it bcuz you want to not bcuz any one else wants you to...as far as your parents it shouldnt matter what they say if your happy & that what you want to do then go right ahead...i mean it would be better if they there there..But life never works out the way we would always like it to
2006-09-08 04:53:03 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Girl 24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have every right to be concerned. Particularly if your boyfriend is 'forcing' you to marry him.
(How does a man force a woman to marry him? I thought it was the other way around)
2006-09-08 04:45:47 · answer #3 · answered by Laquishacashaunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best to wait until you get back. He can't force you into marriage anyway, not unless you let him. I think your parents input is important and I think the 6 months apart from each other would be good for you guys. It gives you time to think about your feelings on a guy that would force you to make such a big decision in your life.
2006-09-08 04:45:38 · answer #4 · answered by *apes* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forcing?????? he has a gun to ur head and everything???????? NO HE DOESNT.. so how can u say he's forcing u.. are u not ur own person with ur own mind, and feelings.. if he cares about u.. he will want what makes "YOU" happy and if ur parents being involved with ur wedding will make u happy.. then do that.. if he fusses about it.. then hun.. hello wake up .. cause this is how ur marriage is going to be, him wanting what he wants and not giving a damn about what u want.. i say dont marry him at all.. sounds like a control freak..
2006-09-08 05:12:50 · answer #5 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to the question you asked. What you really need to do is take a step back and ask yourself where are you going to be in 5 years, and where do you see yourself in 5 years. if its not what you want then you need to make a choice and your parents will be there for you if they love you no matter what you choose even if it doesn't make them happy.
2006-09-08 04:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by weasel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By all means do not marry without your parents knowing about it. Or were you kidnapped?
2006-09-08 04:48:55 · answer #7 · answered by Johannu 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hellooo...being forced to marry isn't that barbian times?? If you don't want to, then don't. It's your life and you are in the control seat!!!
2006-09-08 04:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Forcing" you to get married?
Parents or not, I would never marry someone who has to "force" me to do so.
2006-09-08 04:41:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋