Im 15 and tomorrow im going to a birthday party. She is turing 15. Me and another girl are the only ones invited. But they just told me that they are gonna sneak in alcohol. I really dont want to be that type of person to even do that. What can i say or do to make sure they dont give me any? Cause they did joke around saying they would put some in my drink without me knowing.
2006-09-08 04:13:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Ok, you have to stick to your guns. If you really don't wish to drink, then DONT drink. It is very hard to sneak alcohol into someone's drink without the other person's knowledge, the taste and smell is a dead giveaway. So make sure you smell your drink before you take a sip. If it smells weird, DONT drink it. If it smells fine, then take a ITTY BITTY drink, if it tastes weird, pour it out. Also, one other way you can keep yourself safe, is to NOT leave your drink unattended. If you go to the bathroom, take it with you... Make it clear that you don't want to drink, as well...
Ask yourself if this is something you really want to involve your self in. If you will be the only one not drinking, then you need to understand you will be "babysitting" for your friends who have little to no experience in drinking... this can be a tedious task, as people who drink are often not themselves while under the influence. Also, note that it is illegal for them to even be drinking, and if they are caught, and even though you are not drinking, you could get into trouble as well.
Do what your heart says, but I thought I would through the truth out there to you, as they will obviously not tell you, (maybe because they don't even know what will happen, or maybe because they don't want you to know!) Please be careful, and good luck to you!
Hugs!
~Rikki
2006-09-08 04:26:59 · answer #1 · answered by Cutelilminxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good relationship with your folks, tell them the situation and get them to back you on an excuse not to go, such as you are grounded. We all know you should just say No, but it isn't always that easy. Be careful as they really could spike your drink. Getting drunk at 15 is not really a cool thing to do.
2006-09-08 04:16:45 · answer #2 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 11:12:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always watch your drink if you feel you have to go. Otherwise, just tell them straight up. No booze or you loose. Meaning your presents at this party. Y'all don't need booze to have a great time. And it will get ya in a whole lotta trouble. Stay away, girlfriend. Stay far away. If they want to do that. You turn around and leave! FAST!!!
2006-09-08 04:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by rainedrop61 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon I would make sure you fix your own drinks and don't leave your drink unattended and i think it is terrific that you are willing to stick with your own morals and just go with the crowd.Keep that attitude and you will go far in life.
2006-09-08 04:16:54 · answer #5 · answered by Special 'K' 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound like a wise gal u must have wise parents....its hard to avoid doing things though knowing that its bad, specially if its coming from ur best frens...no wonder they say, a person is judged by the company he/she keeps....there is time for everything and its not the right time for you to start drinking. Its hard to turn down to wat ur best frens say but u'll have to at times, if they cant put u up for turning them down on a thing like drinking, its hard to realize but u sud, that they are not the right frens for u ...trust me this kind of hard decisions will take you a long way....continue to be a wise gal....best of luck!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 04:31:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to drink. Just tell them that you are not interested in it. They should respect your decision not to drink. If they give you a hard time then you should rethink if they are really friends or not.
2006-09-08 04:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by hullo? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont drink, ur too young . . . and even if u drink punch or something pour it yourself but if ppl were jokin about spiking drinks i'd just go to the faucet and drink water all night . . .
2006-09-08 04:32:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i drink myself but trust me if they spike your drink u can taste it but as on what to say just say straight up NO and then u can laugh at them when they have a hangover the next mornig and feel lik S h i t
2006-09-08 04:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you
serve your own
soda, from a can
or bottle you open
and never leave
your glass.
Or, don't drink
anything at all -
sounds awful, no?
Have a great time!
2006-09-08 04:16:52 · answer #10 · answered by vim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋