i have to live with them and please iwant steps to follow :ex:what can i do when they become angry
2006-09-08 04:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by lucy d 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
They are your parents, they basically own you until you are 18.
2006-09-08 04:07:50 · answer #1 · answered by Smitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going to take it that they are angry alot. I would suggest you become your own best friend. Stay in your room most of the time listening to your music/radio, on low so not to tic them off, and get into writing poems, drawing, or writing your friends notes so that you can pass them out before first class.......... do your homework and just basicly stay out of their way and out of there sight. I was in a simular situation and this is what I did. It didn't help all the time, but it kept me safe and out of their angry hair MOST of the time. I hope this has helped. If you can find a friend you can stay the night with sometimes on the weekends so that you can get out of the house and have some stress free enviroment around you. BLessed be my friend and good luck. I am sorry your parents are so angry inside. Its not your fault and you can avoid it most of the time. What ever you do............. do not back talk them when they talk or say something to you....... be respectful and listen and you will be ok.
2006-09-08 11:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucy what do you mean you don`t LOVE your FOLKS for me it`s first time in my whole life i here someone talk like that.
I don`t know what makes you say that but imagine this:
At dinner table you just speak out loud and say "MOM & DAD I DON`T LOVE YOU GUYS!".........ask yourself what your mom and dad will feel even your younger sisters and bros........
And not least imagine they say the same thing to you HOW WILL YOU FEEL.....i don`t know you relationship with your parents but i sugest you think it over and over use ur decison making skills or see someone you trust illustrate the problem at hand explain why and what makes you hate them identify such thing then call your parents and talk it out i`m sure after all this you will see that HAVING PARENTS IS THE BEST THING THAT WILL EVER HAPPEN TO YOU.
Just think about it Don`t Be An Orphan While Your Parents Are Still VERY MUCH ALIVE!
2006-09-08 11:16:32 · answer #3 · answered by Fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you hate them? if it's only b/c you are not free and there are so many rules to follow day-in day-out then don't worry it'll all be history before you know it.
and it's easy not to make them angry also? just do what you think is right. don't do what you are not supposed to do,
I know it's hard but just do it for the time being,
If there is other problems which you think not right then you need to consult it with the authorities
2006-09-08 11:18:50 · answer #4 · answered by vero 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Knowing how you feel about them, it's no wonder they are angry. Grow up, girly! One of these days you really will "mature", and realize what a jerk you've been up to that point. Unless they sexually or verbally or emotionally abuse you, you haven't got anything to complain about.
2006-09-08 11:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is it because they wont let you do something stupid, they mybe are just trying to lead you down the right path in life. and right now you dont like it. think of what you are saying, mybe as you get older and wiser you my thank your parents for being a little hard on you now.
2006-09-08 11:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Bighorn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to love them.
2006-09-08 16:21:11 · answer #7 · answered by robert r 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you say you don't love your parents.I could only understand that if they physically,mentally ,sexual abuse you. If you are of age then move out and that should end all the problems.I think you need to see a counselor about your problem!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-08 11:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you, they should kick your *** out!
2006-09-08 11:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by metalicgirl69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋