We all have good and bad days. Sometimes, I say things that i truly do NOT mean and then I feel bad afterwards. I usually can go the person and apologize; however, I find it more IMPORTANT to show THROUGH MY ACTIONS the sincerity of what I am saying.
2006-09-08 03:30:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
your story is so pleasant to read, thank-you, actions do speak more than words,bless your heart, there is a ray of sunshine out there,and your a part of it, yes, my biggest fear, is the person not accepting my apology
2006-09-08 03:38:42 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's called making living amends, and that's my husband's way of apologizing. Me, I need to hear the words too LOL! I apologize and have no problem with it, but like you I also work very hard to not have to say I'm sorry again (at least not for the same infraction)!
I find it important especially to apologize to my children if I'm out of line. Just because I'm having a bad day doesn't mean it's ok for me to be grumpy with them or snap at them for small things, and I let them know that. I think teaching that it's o.k. to apologize is very important - it breeds the idea that it's o.k. to humble yourself to another after you've done wrong - and it also breeds the idea that forgiveness is a wonderful thing. After all, if they learn that by apologizing, they are absolved by the person they apologized to, they'll understand that it's the right thing to do to forgive those who have harmed them.
2006-09-08 10:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL it looks like we have something in common =) Yes, i to sometimes say things that i dont mean. Every time i feel the ugre to say something i stop and think about it at frist, (for a few sec here lol) then say it if i know its not going ot hurt anyone.
2006-09-08 10:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by Party Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its more important to be aware of what you said and not to keep doing it as people will stop forgiving if it keeps happening and i have dropped friends for exactly that reason
2006-09-08 10:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually no, i have learned to think before i speak. i have a tendency to put my foot in my mouth. but if i do, and when i do, i will apologize. the problem usually is that people do not forgive
2006-09-08 10:37:10 · answer #5 · answered by upfromnutin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I genuinely know I goofed up..I will apolgize sincerely...as stubburn as I am. Words do mean alot in this case...as well as Your actions
2006-09-08 10:33:49 · answer #6 · answered by Catherinefaith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i do not even if i am not the one who did wrong i apologize because i do not like to people mad at me, and if they decide that they are still not talking to me i just chill because i know that i am not the one who flaked out.
2006-09-08 10:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by katz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard for me and my boyfriend to say were sory although i always am if i said something hurtful, but i think its because he finds it impossible to say hes sory, he would much rather find a way out by claiming i caused him to act or say something mean.
2006-09-08 10:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by kitten4cobain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no=if i am wrong or say the wrong thing it is my duty to ask for forgivness and say that i was wrong here or in the real world
happy day
old geezer
2006-09-08 11:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Charles W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fear is that if i say it, this will be held over me every time I could be wrong
2006-09-08 10:32:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋