2006-09-08 03:26:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
When I wasn't faithful in my first marriage .. it actually created a lot of guilt, anxiety and stress. I learned my lesson and would never do it again. Its not worth hurting others.
~ Mel
2006-09-08 03:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You know you have a good question that I am sure alot of people have thought of often but have never really been able to express their feelings about it. I have cheated before and have actually fallen in weird situation becuase i dont know what i feel now..but i know i feel a bit of guilt. and get all fustrated be cause the more time i spend with that person the more i care about him and want him but then i have a husband and a son. and its just a weird feeling . Anyways about the feeling yea it is exciting and thrilling..but there are consequences and those are not always nice and happy so I suggest cheat only if there is reason to.
2006-09-08 04:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing about cheating....basically it's a new person, the thrill of the chase...something that isn't so familar...and yeah, that is all exciting. You get those butterflies in ur stomach again, you get excited about talking to that person...it all sounds so great in the beginning, but trust me, if you love the one you're with, in the end, you will hate yourself. You will think about it most everyday. Spend the rest of your life, trying not let something slip about it. Besides the fact that you will beat yourself up over and over about it. Believe this, even IF you don't get caught, what you will reep will NOT be worth what you sow. My advice, if you have someone that's turning ur head, flirt, have fun, but DO NOT take farther than you can live with. You gotta trust me on this one.
2006-09-08 03:33:25 · answer #3 · answered by tookie_8197 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ive never cheated while married.. but i did cheat on a bf many years ago when i was younger, he knew where i was and who i was with..and he knew our relationship wasnt going well, I didnt have cheating on my mind when i left.. but at the same point i knew it was a possiblity that could happen.. And all it did was make me feel like crap afterwards and wasnt worth the whole 10 minutes it lasted.. i ended up feeling so guilty i came home early...Although i was forgiven for what i did.. i couldnt forgive myself.. as im not one to like to hurt someone and it was a stupid immature mistake on my part.. It wasnt worth the pain and guilt...and if i could do it all over again, i wouldnt of....
2006-09-08 03:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not married to cheat on my wife but i think that it gives you the thrill and excitement you were looking for just for a few hours but after that you feel guilty and ashamed of yourself so an advice to all men:NEVER CHEAT ON YOUR WIVES SO AS NOT TO HURT THEM AND NOT TO FEEL GUILTY ALL THE TIME.plz follow it............
2006-09-08 03:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by Hussein A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone cheats for “the thrill and Excitement”. Sometimes you genuinely care deeply about more than one person. Not everything is so black and white.
2006-09-08 03:41:49 · answer #6 · answered by Zorki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first and last time I cheated, it was a revenge type thing. He was cheating on me for a skanky girl and I cheated on him with a guy. He was super controlling and I thought if I cheated, he'd dump me. After he broke my wrist and a few bruises, I got a restraining order against him and I haven't seen him since.
2006-09-08 03:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a sad question. Maybe I try to be such an honest person, I can not fathom the thought of cheating.. or the thought of actually doing it. Of course I have my fantasies with a bald black man.. but that's a diff question/answer :)
2006-09-08 08:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Serious Mandy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it gives you is a serious case of the "What the f*ck did I do that for" leftovers. It would have been far easier to have thanked the other for the offer and consider it a compliment, then go home....once you cheat, you NEVER TRUST YOUR MATE again..there is the real damage!
2006-09-08 03:31:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's more like a rollercoaster. The up's are great, the downs are horrible. It's a very painful experience, but also brings so much pleasure..
2006-09-08 03:43:13 · answer #10 · answered by tear streaked angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated but wanted to, good question. I would have felt too guilty and can't lie to save my life so I could never have pulled it off.
2006-09-08 03:38:13 · answer #11 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋