2006-09-08 03:21:13 · 12 answers · asked by John D 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Communication is the key. Have you lost touch with each other? What were the common bonds that brought you together? Do you try to keep the relationshio special or have you fallen into a "holding pattern"? Talk to your significant other. A relationship is like a plant, it needs to be fed and nurtured in order to grow. Good luck, I hope it works out for you.
2006-09-08 03:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by shellb7088 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a situation similar to yours with My ex-girlfriend. Usually if you are willing to try to save your relationship you would have to try to bring them back with spending more time together..talking about things that you used to talk about or know that they like to talk about. Continue to tell them that they are special in your life, and tell them how meaningful they are to you. IF..and only IF they start acting VERY strange (which is what happened with My ex), then you need to sit down, face them so that they are looking at you and ask them clearly.."What is going on? Is there something I should know that is giving you a reason to act strange towards Me?" Explain to them that you have seen a drop of interest, lack of love or even boredom if any..and that you are very concerned about all this. That will open a door of communication that they will be able to grasp. Be gentle and try to keep your temper at check..(believe Me I had to do that and THEN some), but sooner or later they will have to say something. If they can't but feel there is something wrong with them, a counselor will need to be in check. Other than that My friend...the relationship will be over and there will be nothing you will be able to do about it. This is when you will realize that it is time to move on.
2006-09-08 10:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by Clais 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B 4 u try 2 save it stop an ask u'reself" Is it worth it?"...Then if u think so then do what it take wit in reason,Dont go over bord cause if they dont want u then u cant change that an anyway it'll b their loss.Think'a bout it....
2006-09-09 04:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by sophatup 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you still in love with each other? if so then its worth saving. Talk to each other u wont know till you do that
2006-09-08 12:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by caz70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate.... it might be just that each others needs are not getting met in the relationship and ya'll are moving way from each other.
Talk, tell your partner how you feel.
2006-09-08 10:27:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sandy C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ALWAYS THINK POSITIVE MAKE A SPECIAL EFFORT TO PUT THINGS BACK AS THEY WERE AND TRY AND TALK ABOUT THINGS AS EQUALS.IF THAT DOESNT WORK USE A MARRIAGE COUNSELLOR.BEST OF LUCK
2006-09-08 10:23:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fact that your asking the question is proof alone that its breaking up
2006-09-08 10:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by weekend_mode 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Have a conversation with the other person.
2006-09-08 16:32:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it is breaking up it you'll be better off letting it happening.
an ending of one thing is usually a beginning of something new...
2006-09-08 10:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by 42 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
dont bother, never commit my friend, enjoy life, and be merry with as many people as possible.
2006-09-08 10:28:34 · answer #10 · answered by Jose Esoj 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋