2006-09-08 02:53:12 · 19 answers · asked by katrina_ponti 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Daring to love, one puts their heart in the most vulnerable position of all.
However, anyone who says they love you will cradle your heart with all the loving tenderness in the first place.
So, if you feel you must ask for tenderness, it is not love.
If he is not cherishing you, he is not loving you.
2006-09-08 08:09:59 · answer #1 · answered by Bender 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I used to but not anymore. I used to fear rejections when asking for anything sexual or non sexual, but again not anymore. Its makes love so much better when you can communicate openly with your partner. i think it also helps when you have a life partner. Less bad surprises and fears, more good surprises and "learning opportunities"
2006-09-08 18:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cali Girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, if you are in a healthy and happy relationship, tenderness should come naturally.
2006-09-08 02:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by Dre 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. In fact, I've come to realize that sometimes asking for what you want is a big part of getting what you want, both in life and from your mate!
2006-09-10 12:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes ther is always a fear of rejection. We alll need love
2006-09-08 02:55:45 · answer #5 · answered by unkown 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, too many other things to worry about nowadays.
Ask, if you get a NO, then ask elsewhere.
err... I DONT mean cheat....
but you should not have to hope and beg.
what the hell kinda relationship is that?
2006-09-08 02:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by Ron K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you fear rejection, than you should just stay locked in your room, this is not a perfect world, have some balls get out there and go after it, you get turned down, try try again until it works!
2006-09-08 03:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by Michael 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
depends from the person from which I ask that.If I am sure in his feelings for me, then no.
2006-09-08 02:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never - why should I? If its there its there and if it isn't then it isn't - I can't ask somebody else for something they don't have or aren't prepared to give. If its there - great! If it isn't - ask somebody else.
2006-09-08 02:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
No, I don't ask for it, I take it. You must give in order to receive.
2006-09-08 02:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋